How do I ask him out casually??? Without seeming desperate or something??
2006-08-18 05:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by angiebaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately girls who take the initiative can be improperly branded in negative ways. But there are ways around this. Find out what a guy likes to do. If you share one of those interests, or would like to try one, arrange for a convenient conversation close enough to him so he will overhear it concerning your plans to do something he likes to do and see if you can get him to come forward with a request to join you. Or find a way to get him alone (if you're concerned about others thinking you're too forward) and simply tell him you would like to get to know him better & ask him if he'd like to do something with you. This is the 21st century for God's sake - be bold! He'll probably jump at the chance! But on the slim chance he doesn't, e-mail me & I will help you get past it...
2006-08-18 05:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait then he might feel friends not partners trust that he likes you but he is just shy and if you like him and make it easy for him he'll get the picture or go with the flow either way you get your man.
So the next time you guys are out at a club go dance with him if he doesn't want to go out on the floor dance right there make sure to back it up and grind just enough to keep him interested.
2006-08-18 05:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by bigmj75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring up something that your doing with your friends on the weekend or something and ask him if he has any plans if he dosent ask him if he would like to join you and a couple friends for the movies or somethin
2006-08-18 05:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ty C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just approach him and ask him if he isn't doing anything, you would like to hang out...How desperate is that?
2006-08-18 05:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as him if he has plan friday night because there is this event in town and I want to know if you want to go with me. I want a guy by my side so he can protect me from rapist. .
2006-08-18 05:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by BokBok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chat him up & wait for the right time to ask, you girls know how to lead a conversation.
2006-08-18 05:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure a girl cant seem despirate...and if they do they should come my way because im nieve like that lol
2006-08-18 05:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by jimoelfke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just in the middle of normal conversation just say, hey you fancy grabbing a coffee with me sometime ?.......
2006-08-18 05:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmnnn.....try to write him a letter..or it's better to do the move girl...talk to him..you dont know how it feels after telling the guy that you like him....
2006-08-18 05:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by dynce018 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go grab him in the lower back.. Then he will wake up..
2006-08-18 05:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋