ok, me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 3 months now, and NEVER once has he introduced me as his g/f, not even to little 99 yr old Mrs. Mcarty!!! Not to the guys/girls at church, or his other guy friends, I know he's head over heals for me, he told his mom so, so should I let this one little thing bother me?
(PS- he never kiss's me in front of our friends, not even on the cheek, and its rare for him to even put his arm around me....it kinda hurts...it's like I'm just another one of his friends who happens to be a girl...)
2006-08-18 05:31:58 · 7 answers · asked by blue_eyes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about that. Some guys have a problem with showing affection publicly. Maybe thats it. Whatever the case, you need to talk to your boyfriend about it, only he can answer that question..
2006-08-18 05:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by aintlovegrand78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kissing, hugging in public could mean that he is uncomfortable doing that. Some people are like that.
As far as how he introduces you goes, perhaps he just assumes that people will assume you are girlfriend and boyfriend. If it really bothers you then you should talk to him about it.
2006-08-18 12:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what's up. Let him know what's bothering you. If he's afraid to do that stuff in front of others, tell him to grow some balls. Otherwise, he probably isn't really interested in you.
2006-08-18 12:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by jewan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats not cool at all my last gf was like that although even when we were alone nothing ever happened we never kissed we just held hands.
the first time she broke up with me she said i was like her brother.
the time after we got back together still nothuing happened and
she told me see your like a pesant nad im like a queen there fore we should'nt be together.
anyone whos embarassed to say that thy're with you is lame.
~iza
2006-08-18 15:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by isaiah d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be one of those guys that doesn't like PDA(public displays of affection for those of you who do not know). Just talk to him about it and ask him that.
2006-08-18 12:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you bring that fact that it hurts you up to him and see what he says? Maybe you and he have very different perspectives on what's going on, and where it was where it is now.
2006-08-18 12:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by SKully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably embarrassed to call you his girlfriend or he's a closet homosexual!
2006-08-18 12:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by lonesomelover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋