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...your sex life become less exciting?? I've never run into that problem in any relationship (maybe because I'm only 20 and the guys I've dated are horn dogs lol) but i see questions like 'how do i make sex w/ my bf or husband better' all the time...when exactly do you reach that point???

2006-08-18 05:31:01 · 5 answers · asked by Hypnotiq 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i'd say about 7 yrs...ever hear of "The 7 year Itch?"

2006-08-18 05:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 1 0

Its called the "honeymoon phase" of a relationship, due to the chemicals that were released in your brain at the beginning of your relationship. When you find someone you connect with you have hormones being released that are like morphine, this is what makes you want to be with them 24/7 - after you have settled in together your body stops making these chemcials (hoping you have mated and spawned a new generation - which is how our species survived) so this usually decreseases around 6 months, and is all gone by a year.

Do not fear it just means you have entered a new phase of your relationship. You know a lot about each other, good and bad and now you have to do the real work and spice it up!

Costumes, roleplay, toys, massage, all good ideas to make it fun again. Try sex in different rooms, outdoors, different positions.

have fun and good luck!

2006-08-18 12:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by friskygimp 5 · 1 0

I think it is different for everyone. I also think it makes a difference why you are having sex. If you are having sex simply b/c it is exciting (even with your husband/wife), then yes, it will definitely get boring after a while. If you view sex as something to create intimacy, have fun with, and enjoy each other and make each other feel good, I don't think it necessarily has to get "boring." It hasn't for me, after two kids and am in my 30s and married. But, I know not everyone is able to talk about things they want out of sex, or talk about what they like and dislike, and not everyone is married to someone who cares about how much they enjoy sex, either. I think all of those things factor in.

2006-08-18 12:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Amy J 3 · 1 0

That point comes when sex becomes routine do to work hours, privacy, timing, mood etc...don't get me wrong you still want each other but sometimes its just the same and something needs to change for it to become better.

2006-08-18 12:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by bigmj75 2 · 1 0

I dno lol..maybe when u get tired of your bf or husband lol

2006-08-18 12:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 1 0

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