I recently came out of a long term relationship. I am interested in dating guys but I'm afraid of loosing myself again. I want to find someone who accepts me exactly they way I am. How do I do this?
2006-08-18 05:26:49 · 15 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm....it takes time and patience to find someone like that, but you will. Just go out, date, and have a good time. Give yourself some time to heal before pursuing another relationship.
2006-08-18 05:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going "on the market". You are available now - maybe? Just take the time to enjoy yourself. If you stop looking for love, it will find you. Sure, date a few guys if you like, but if you're just coming out of a long term relationship, I would recommend you don't get too serious too soon. You'll be fine. Good luck.
2006-08-18 12:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by sputternick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just recently got out of a relationship that you lost yourself in, I would suggest finding yourself before looking for someone else. Take a class (Educational, Art, Exercise etc...) do something that makes you happy In doing those things you will also meet people with common interests, don't do it to look for someone though, do it because it makes you happy
2006-08-18 12:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. You need to spend some time on your own to enjoy your life before you bring someone into it - you've got a bit of a hole after breaking up from a longterm r/ship and you can't expect someone else just to step in and fill it with a perfect fit. Enjoy all the things you love. Do everything for you. Make your life complete by yourself and I reckon someone will come along and love what you have to offer.
2006-08-18 12:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've just come out of a long-term relationship in which you "lost" yourself, give yourself a bit of time to revitalize all the aspects of your personality that you've missed! Date casually for now, and don't make the mistake of becoming too attached. You need to embrace yourself exactly as you are before anyone else can!
2006-08-18 12:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trial and error. Sometimes you'd wish that in love we payed our dues and are entitled to THE ONE after being burned. Sadly, life defies all logic and chances are you'll still have to kiss a few more frogs before you find your true mate.
It's life, it's love, get into it with all your soul.
2006-08-18 12:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...
I tried being myself...
that attracted women that listened to someone else about if they would stay with me or not... ...they all left...
hmmm...
I thought that was ok since they were listening to someone else then I would not get in their way of doin' that..
haven't tried anything else yet...
I stay away from bars...
I stay away from churches...
I stay away from clubs...
I stay away from governments...
ya know any places where people are listening to others...
Think that I'll keep being myself and decide if I like those that come to me.!!
2006-08-18 12:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right guy to come along. Don't put yourself out there. Let them come to you. Or else they won't like you for you. Trust me on this.
2006-08-18 12:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u a piece of meat? If so please put yourself on the market. Otherwise be friendly and smile and be clean and have interests and things will happen.
2006-08-18 12:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck.. You have to make sure that they accept you for you. If they don't then move on.
2006-08-18 12:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋