Ten months into our relationship... everything is great. We have always had small fights, but now they escalate pretty rapidly. He grabs and pushes me now. Should I get out b4 it’s too late?
2006-08-18 05:25:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES.you should get out IMMEDIATELY. you think next time he wont grab and push your azz through a window or something.you gotta be smart babe, thats not love if he;s putting his hands on you.in your case No, its definitely not worth it.find someone that will respect your body and not put their hands on you in a aggresive manner.your worth it,i know you are.
2006-08-18 05:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, Love is made up of trust, honesty and communication.
When fights frequency increased, communication should also increase. Let him know that fights are becoming more and more each day. Tell him honestly how you feel about the fights and what and why you want to stop these fights. Dont react to his immediate response. Tell him you trust him to think things over carefully. Step back and give him time to respond to your feelings.
If he hears you carefully, he will respect your request and perhaps come back to you to discuss this issue maturely.
Give it a try and good luck.
2006-08-18 12:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you get off on being physically abused, pushing and shoving are deal-breakers. Make that very clear to him (and, most all, to yourself) so as to avoid more severe abuse in the future. Yes, get out before it's too late. You are very wise to ask the question. A LOT of people don't bother to ask before it's too late.
2006-08-18 12:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea.... grabbing and pushing should NOT be tolerated. It will escalate from there. I say get out now. Thats what Id probably do.
2006-08-18 13:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, leave while you can. Grabbing and pushing is the first step in becoming Ike and Tina Turner. Watch the movie.
2006-08-18 12:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by trina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why whould he push you,
Fights = Not Good
You Should Never Ever Get Into Fights...
Thats Love!
2006-08-18 12:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by TastelessFish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know what you want out of this relationship. Also you need to tell him that you will not tolerate him putting his hands on you. No one deserves that kind of treatment. Maybe he needs some counseling to learn how to deal with his temper in a healthy way.
2006-08-18 12:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by jessica b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so obvious, The relationship is already degrading. Get out of this dysfunctional relationship.
2006-08-18 12:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by FastMoments 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If he is pushing you now, it won't take long before he is hitting you. Cut your losses and move on. Love isn't supposed to hurt.
2006-08-18 12:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, trust me, the moment you see any signs that he has a hard time controlling his anger you should leave. Just think, he has changed like this in 10 months? no, he's always been like this, its just now he is getting comfortable....
Good luck
2006-08-18 12:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by nat_00420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋