i love my ex but it's always drama drama drama...do u think people deserve a second chance to be in your life???
2006-08-18 05:25:17 · 20 answers · asked by ladeee lindel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart...
If he does your head in (which it sounds like he does) then it is best to keep him out of your life!!
Don't let him beg you - I hate that!! I can just never stay strong, I always give in. Take it from me, follow your heart...
2006-08-18 05:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say that, in general, everybody deserves a second chance, but now that I've read the details, I really do think it depends on the situation.
It is difficult to answer your quetsion as you don't give many details about your situation. You say "ex" - does that mean you were married, or is it just an ex-boyfriend? I think that makes a difference. If you were married and divorced, then I do not think it is wise to re-marry.
It also depends on the kind of "dramas". If your ex was an abuser in any way, then I don't think it would be wise to give any second chances.
People only change if they want to and if it is their decision, you cannot change somebody yourself - even then, it is still quite rare for anyone to change themselves radically. So you have to decide whether you can accept and trust him the way he is, or not?
I hope this helps:>)
2006-08-18 05:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. And if the person has changed any. Or is still doing the same things or even worse. IT could be real disasterous. I don't give second chances in relationships. I've learn my lesson. If they do something once and that they will never do it again they eventually. SO I wouldn't give a guy a second chance. It will hurt you even more than before.
2006-08-18 05:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what the drama is! I think you can give people a second chance and it can succeed, but you have to both want it. He has to make an effort and keep it up and you have to learn to not bring up past issues. Its hard to comment as you don't say any background but the choice is yours. Is he worth another go??
2006-08-18 06:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends really. I have always given second chances. After that no way a 3rd or 4th. They will just take advantage if they think they can get away with it. You must be firm and say this is your final chance, don't give in or you'll be the soft touch and they will abuse it.
Good luck.
2006-08-18 05:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by woodlandbop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends, why give someone a second chance to do the same thing to you again. unless they definitely won't then no way. a drama addict won't change so what's the point. it doesn't mean you don't forgive but love yourself enough to make choices about what you want for your life
2006-08-18 07:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seconds chance is for them to learn the lesson if it still dont work then No third Chances.
2006-08-18 05:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by -mystery- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how much tolerance you have. If teh issues are ones that you can get over then why not? If not then move on. Just be honest with yourself and the answer will come.
2006-08-18 05:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by dionne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u beleive that whatever they did b4 wont happen again or however they acted b4 will end then yes
good luck and remember there is always a light at the end of the tunnel could be a really long tunnel but its there
2006-08-18 05:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people do deserve 2nd chances in gneral but it does depend on how bad what they have done.
2006-08-18 05:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋