I was prolly 10 when I had my first kiss, it was a girl. Then dated only guys and never cross my mind that, today I was going to consider to date a girl. Three years my best friend and college room mate at that time told me she was gay. She have all the nice cualities you wish for a man to have and be. Second time I kiss a girl was 2 yrs a go and honestly it was good. Now I met this nice girl who is gay and unhappy in the relationship she is in, We play vb for different teams one day a week, one night after game was over we stay for few drinks. We had a great time. Now I found myself thinking about her all the time, I like her, weird huh? We always said that we can tell when men likes us or not or if you see yourself being with someone. Well see myself being with her. The problem is friends and family. should I take the chance and see if I can be in a relationship with this girl?
2006-08-18 05:23:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is possible, but the only way you will know is by taking a chance and giving this relationship a chance. You are smart to consider the implications regarding family and friends because unfortunately there are still a lot of people that won't be supportive of this choice. However, I believe love is not designed to bound so tightly that it can only exist for those of an opposite sex. Take love when and where you find it because it is a treasure worth holding on to.
2006-08-18 05:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having friends of the same sex. The problem comes when society encourages us to sexualize every relationship we have. That's crazy, and so unnecessary. Yes, there are a lot of jerks out there. But there really are a few nice guys around, too. Don't give up just because you are feeling confused. If you REALLY want to push this relationship, I don't see how anyone can stop you. What did the poet say? "First to thine own self be true."
2006-08-18 05:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never try you'll live to regret it as you'll never know how good or bad it can be. Give it a shot. Dating is all about trying out a relationship, it's like test driving a car. Be it with a girl, or guy, it makes no difference as you're attracted to who you're attracted to.
As far as family and friends go, well they'll either have to accept you for who you are, or not. If they don't then you'll know who your real friends are. If it's family who disapproves, well yes, that would suck, but you need to do what's best for you. This is YOUR life! Live it to the fullest! Perhaps if people can see how serious you are about this and how happy it makes you, they'll feel happy for you and give you their total support.
2006-08-18 05:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would so date him
2016-03-27 07:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, try it. Unless, you intend on being with this person for a good measure of time, then dont tell your family. As for your friends, if you let them know that you have found happiness in the arms of girl and they dont want to support you then fuhget about 'em. When you are going through life changing times, you find out who your real friends are, this is a test for them as well.
Anyways, good luck in fijnding yourself.
2006-08-18 06:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by dionne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're Bi. But as far as telling family, maybe you should give it 6 months after you start dating that girl to see if you really are, and only then decide about telling your family.
Some Bis have families that would disown them so they are better off not coming out of the closet so to speak, so think about that.
2006-08-18 05:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by Yogi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely
2006-08-18 05:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by cirdellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you, I could remember being like 10 and having also my first kiss with a girl I always had fantasy’s about being with other woman but always to chicken to go any where with it, I been thinking a lot about it lately.
2006-08-18 05:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet little Tammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to the opposite gender and seek some serious help. See the reason you are becoming bi is you know its not right. You are curious and I understand that. I like d*** and will always like it. So Ive had my experiences. I could never be with a girl. Its never right to be with someone thats your roomate. Best of luck.
2006-08-18 05:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. I've been with men and women - sexually and relationship wise too. Its great. I say try it out, if it doesnt work out then you can go back to guys or a different girl. Wish the best for you!
2006-08-18 05:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by moglinferno21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋