should i feel weird if my girlfreind has slept with more than 7 guys be 4 me?

Question

i havent had sex with her im just asking?

Answer 1

No 7 is a small number. Just make sure she is clean (both of you should be tested) before you do have sex and use protection.

Answer 2

Depends on how you feel about her right now. The fact that she told you that proves she is not hiding anything. But if she's bragging then best to wait until you know for sure if it's the right thing to do. Since you two haven't done anything yet, make sure she is "clean". Meaning she's disease free. Always wear protection!
It shouldn't matter how many men she has slept with. But if it was done in a short amount of time like all casual sex then make sure this is what you want and be prepared to get hurt if it should happen.
Just follow your heart and the rest will happen.

Answer 3

Funny, I was discussing this with my b/f last night - he really seems to have a problem with the fact that his last wife had slept with 50+ men before he married her& she was only 30. I think he should have asked her before he married her, but that's just my opinion. I don't think that makes your g/f loose or anything - but you might need to ask her how "careful" she was. Maybe even ask if she's been tested? In this day & age you just can't be too careful. I reckon it's an idea you'll have to get used to, but I don't think you should let it bother you too badly. That's not a huge #.
Maybe it's a good thing she comes to you with some experience & can tell you or show you what she likes to do & maybe she can do some things for you that you've never had done. Enjoy her; & relax - it's not that bad.

Answer 4

That depends on how old she is. If she's 15..7 is pretty big...if she's 18, that's still pushing it. If she's 30...that's no big deal. She's a dumbass for telling you that which is none of your business, and as your question indicates, creates loads of problems.

How many have you been with? I hope you aren't holding her to a double standard.

The truth is that lots of young girls think they must have sex with a boy to get or keep a boyfriend. That's too bad, but blame that on media, peer pressure, the boys who push AND a self-esteem problem that's all too common. Perhaps, for these reasons, you shouldn't judge her on that, but look at who she is as an overall person and whether or not SHE is someone you wish to be dating.

Be sure you guys are using protection. Big time!

Answer 5

No, actually you might feel good about it. She has experience, that's a good thing. Also, if she never had sex with other people, she might want to experiment with that later on. I would not worry about it.
By the way, do you have experience before her? How is that for you? Probably for you that is no problem. She wil feel the same about her experiences.
I think, personally, it's good to experience some before settling down.

Answer 6

Honey, she's pimpin' more than you are. Haha, but Yeah, I'd feel pretty weird. And none of them have lasted so what does that tell you. She doesn't want a relationship she just wants YOU. But do what you want, no ones gonna stop you.

Answer 7

Yes, it's normal to feel this way. I'd feel weird about any guy who has been with many before me.

Answer 8

I know how you feel man. Maybe you should talk to her and see how things goes. If you are really not comfortable, then I don't see a point being together

Answer 9

Providing it wasn't in the last hour, probably not. At least I wouldn't be if I was in your shoes. It's really up to you. And if it was in the last hour, tell her to at least take a bath first.

Answer 10

The past is the past, my friend. Look forward, not back. Look at it this way, would your rather be her first lover, or her last?!