This girl originally wanted to be sex buddies while I eventually started to like her and I began to want a relationship with her. She did not want that and played mind games with me for a long time. She decided that we should not have sex because she thinks I would cling to her. THen she has sex with a few of my friends behind my back. She used me for rides, drinks at the bar, and for a shoulder to cry on and what did I get in return nothing. If I stay her friend I will be hoping she changes her mind and eventually grows feelings for me. If I dont be her friend it will make things easier for me to get over her in the long run. The only thing is she has recently realized that I have been ignoring her, and she has begun trying to do things with a lot of my friends so that I would be forced to hang out with her. WHat should I do?
2006-08-18 05:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by canuck131986 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is no secret that this girl loves attention as she is a crier at bars. She has talked to me so many times and has actually lead me on into thinking that she will eventually consider me for a relationship. THen she said that she would never be able to because she dated my friend 3 years ago and says she wants to stay friends with them and she is using htat as a reason. Why does she keep saying one thing and then doing another?
2006-08-18 05:52:11 · update #1
For goodness sake - what are you - a masochist? Find another girl to hang out with instead of putting up with her shenanigans. Do you really want second hand goods? Aren't you better than that? And it sounds like you need to find a whole new group of friends - because these guys are NOT your friends. They're HERS.
2006-08-18 05:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont think u should be with her in a relationship.. this kind of person may cheat on u and only make u feel worse. however u can always hav one more friend. just dont give her too much attention or else she'll think that u care for her and she'll just ignore u again.. however it depends... u have to solve the mind game urself. but first u hav to know the consequences of dating her and liking her.. then see if its worth being with a person who only want sex.
2006-08-23 11:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man shes burning herself and bad!! She sounds lost but truth is if your buddies are doing her shes not going anywhere im sure they dont mind booty. But as for yourself dont do anything for her anymore your just waisting time no matter how hot or cool she may be trust me you dont want to deal with someone that cant even respect herself hope this helps. P.S keep in mind your buddies remain your friends :)
2006-08-18 05:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool. You don't have to be friends with her, but in this story you can fight for the "custody" of your friends. Don't let her get away with them. So, in the event of you bumping into each other at parties and whatnot, be cool. Say hi,like you would say hi to everyone else, and then move on to other conversations with other friends. Don't let her now you're hurt cause she seems like the kind of person who thrives on this kind of attention.
Cool, cool, cool...learn it, live it, love it. ;)
2006-08-18 05:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE she is not worth it, for one she can't love you because she obviously doesn't love herself to be throwing herself around like that and even if she did suddenly like you she would probably be a cheater anyway. If you only want to get laid then telll her you most deffently won't get attached to her then lay her and get away from her and find someone who deserves you not some horney wh***!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 05:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need someone like her in your life. She sounds messed up and she's only using all of you. Don't bother hanging out with her. It's not worth it.
2006-08-26 03:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by sugarsweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be her friend all she seems to do is use you. If you don't mind getting used continue the friendship and if you don't want this to continue leave her be!
2006-08-25 08:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this psycho out of your life any way you can.
2006-08-18 05:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Morgan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tring 2 b her frend is not worth du effort.....
2006-08-18 05:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by sindindia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue ignoring her...she isnt worth it!
2006-08-18 05:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by ~*REBORN*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋