most of my relationships break bcos of dat.but they tell me dat they love me..do they love me to have sex with me
2006-08-18 05:10:53 · 49 answers · asked by babyglad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its good that you are still a virgin dont let they take it away from you they will say anything to get you in bed, when they say i love you, you say why define what you think love is to you and why me?
2006-08-18 05:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry's cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know when they say they love you they want to really sex you. I dont know If a guy cant taste what hes getting once before your married its kindof pointless to know you have got a good ride. Take risks If you want to go about being a virgin thats your business. Stupid thing I ran into is the person you give it to might just be using you for sex. He was such an ### that he told everyone we where engaged to keep on sleeping with me. So after it was all said and done I was glad to get rid of him. So its nice to wait before you give out all the milk. Although I think If I hadn't done it with my hubby before we where married we would have not flew. So take risks as I say and do what you feel.
2006-08-18 05:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I have had so many guys declare their love for me and then after a month or so of dating when i don't put out they break up with me. But if they can't understand the fact that I'm not ready to take that step then they are not for me. And when the right guy comes along I think I won't have any doubt that he is the one. So hang in there girl, we virgins are an endangered species.
2006-08-18 05:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will say anything to have sex with you. Lots of guys will lie to get what they want. There is nothing wrong with being, and staying, a virgin. Find a guy that loves you for your personality and the times you spend together, not just sex.
2006-08-18 05:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to have sex? Is it a religious thing? Or do you just not fancy it? Also you haven't said how old you are.
While I respect your choice, sex is not something to be scared of, but neither is it something to be given away cheaply.
If a guy says he loves you, he probably does, but he probably wants sex as well. If you don't have a specific reason for not having sex, it could frustrate them as they don't know when you will want to and as such they may decide to cut their losses and move on.
If it is a before marriage thing, they may feel that there is pressure to marry and run away from the commitment.
2006-08-18 05:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart move, kid... move to the head of the class!
Love shouldn't cost a thing, especially when one's
virginity is concerned. If he can't wait BEFORE you are
married with him to hop in the sack with you, then
he's a waste of YOUR time because he might give
you something you definately DON'T WANT and truly
DON'T NEED.
"Abstinance makes the heart grow fonder".
If he loves you, he love you without pressuring
you into unwanted sex while WAITING. It'll be
worth the time getting to know all about you in
other ways without sex.
2006-08-18 05:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by stinker4_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your virginity, you can do what you want with yourself. I have to say (sorry guys) that some men will tell you they love you just to sleep with you. You're obviously still a virgin because you haven't found the right person. Just wait and you'll soon find someone who loves you for you.
It also shouldn't matter if they love you...it should matter more how you feel about them.
2006-08-18 05:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Munchy Mooneo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let a guy presure you into having sex. When you meet the right man, he's not going to pressure you. Sure, he'll want it... but he's not going to force you to do something that you're not ready for. Be proud of your virginity and enjoy it while you have it. You don't wanna regret your first time... I mean, once it's done there's no turning back!
2006-08-18 05:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are like that and will tell you that they do love you just to get you to have sex, you need to stick to your guns, and stay a virgin until you are old enough, and are ready. If a guy really loves you, he will not push you to have sex with him, and will even appreciate the fact that you are a virgin...Good Luck
2006-08-18 05:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might tell you that the moon was made of green cheese if i thought it might help me get into your pants. They dont love you, they just want some action. Good for you. Hold off, and make them get to know and respect you before you condsider giving them any. They will like you for you and not for your girly parts. This will help you find a good guy, not a dirtbag!
2006-08-18 05:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be picky ... dont have sex untill your ready ... bc a sexual relationship is a beast of its own... you will change... i dont know how to explane it but you will ... so dont do it just bc ... all guys will tell you the same thing.. if they think you might have sex with them .. I LOVE YOU ... dont fall for it .... im a guy and if your dating guys from 16 to 22 or so they dont care they just want to say they ... did mary jones ... yeah dude i did it i a nailed her and she was a virgin.. trust me .. thats what they will do .... good luck
2006-08-18 05:23:51 · answer #11 · answered by Vegas GUy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋