i am a little goodlookin & a gal likes me , the problem is that she is ugly how do i ignore her?

Answer 1

Tell her that you want her as a friend, and don't think of her as a girlfriend. But you have to tell her. Don't be mean, mean people suck.

You seem sensitive enough to do this. The good looking girls will respect your good judgement.

Answer 2

I have the same problem, except I'm so good looking that when I go out to eat in nice restaurants women send expensive bottles of wine to my table, and when I jog in the park they offer me money to father their children.

It is a tough problem. Most of the women I date either kill themselves or become nuns when I leave the little note that says "Sorry - it was fun, but I'm moving on" on their bathroom mirror the next morning. Some of them figure if they can spring for the limo, the $400 meal at New York's finest restaurant and the 100-year old cognac, the least I can do is stick around long enough to let them jet me to Paris for a weekend.

I have other fish to fry, and other filet mignons to broil. Not that I cook much; usually a five-star chef does it for me. That is what we writers call a figure of speech. If my figures of speech wore bras, they would be 38D, because they are real beauties.

I guess I'm better looking than you, Bozo. That, or I spin a better tale. I know I capitalize better, so I could spot you 50 IQ points and still win a battle of wits. Why don't you post somewhere else and leave the genealogists alone?

Answer 3

From a female perspective I would say to handle this situation you need to be suave. You may be good looking, but how you handle people you see unfit for you tells your real character. If she is following you or getting in the way-take her by the wayside out of the crowd and say "hey, I feeling a little bit crowded when your around all the time-I am sorry, but I don't really appreciate it that much." Or if she asks you out, just say-I am not available a the moment, I am sure you can find somene else better. Do NOT say, your not my type, or I am not in to you like that. It's unclassy.

Answer 4

What about the beauty inside of her? Maybe this girl has a lot more to offer than just good looks. Also, I know that some girls look- not so pretty now-but, later on in life, they turn out to be strikingly beautiful. It's kind of like the ugly duckling story by Hans Christian Anderson. Take a second look there fella.

Answer 5

You dont ,you just tell her the truth as sweet as you can.So you try not to hurt her feelings.and then if you dont mind you can be strong and let her be a friend.One thing is for sure you could not have a better friend if she can handle it. And help her find mister right and just maybe she will help you find miss right if she is smart enough to respect the truth.girls tell girls things and guys tell guys things.You dont have to be in love to be a true friend.and no one is ugly just not the one for you. Or are you shallow devoid of substance.

Answer 6

You also sound a little under-educated and immature and young.

If she's lucky you will ignore her, she will get the idea and then she'll meet a guy she deserves more, one not so superficial, one who realizes that physical appearance isn't nearly as important as the beauty of the inner person.

Answer 7

Just think if u were ugly and she was pretty and she does the same thing to u...First try to know her.. If she is beautiful by heart, looks dosent matter..Remember one thing outside beauty is temporary and will fade away with time but inside beauty will not

Answer 8

she can't help it that she likes you just don't ignore her is that how guys really are if they see a ugly girl and find out she likes you, you avoid her thats just mean my advice is that you get a girlfriend you said you were goodlooking so that shouldn't be to hard good luck

Answer 9

Be NICE. How do you really know that you're good looking ? Maybe she thinks she is too. Just tell her you're not interested, and go find some good looking, into herself, shallow person just like you. ~

Answer 10

How about trying to see if she is kind, nice, compassionate? Unless that is not the type of person you are looking for. One day we will all be unattractive--when we are old--be kind while you have the chance!