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I am looking for acurate traditions that are preformed during a solstice wedding... I am trying to help plan this wedding and any and all ritual customs would help.

2006-08-18 05:06:49 · 7 answers · asked by Divitacus 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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Halloween / Samhain does not fall on a Solstice.
Google hand-fasting and that should help you.


Blessings )O(

2006-08-18 05:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 1 0

The solstices are in December and June. Halloween celebrates the ancient Celtic holiday of Samhain. Most Pagan traditions celebrate this as the death of the God, and the meat harvest. Its the time where the veil between the worlds is at its thinnest.

Personally, most people I know wouldn't have a wedding on Halloween, as it revolves around death, and endings. In my personal tradition I honor the time between Samhain and Yule (Winter Solstice) as a time to regroup, rest and look inward. Yule signifies the darkest night, and the fact that the light will be steadily increasing until June. Yule is great for new beginnings.

I guess the question you'd want to ask your friend is if she wants to get married on Halloween for the spookiness of it... or does she want to get married on a solstice? If she's trying to connect with the Paganism, a handfasting might be the way to go.

Good luck!

2006-08-18 06:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy 3 · 1 0

I am one of those unreal people who got married on Halloween, but we didn't practice any of the old druid customs, pagan rituals, or anything like that. Halloween has roots going back centuries to the Druids who honored Baal, the sun god, and Samhain, the lord of the dead. The Celtic calendar year ended on October 31, the eve of Samhain. In their ceremonies huge bonfires made from sacred oak branches served as the center of attraction and humans were burned alive in wicker cages, among other atrocities too gruesome to mention here.

The Romans conquered the Celts in 43 A.D., bringing about a few changes in the celebration of this holiday. The Romans also honored the dead in late October, in addition to having a festival in honor of Pomona, the goddess of fruit and trees. Interestingly, fruits such as apples were used for divination purposed by the Romans and the Celtics were able to honor Pomona as the goddess of their sacred oak trees. All three holidays were effortlessly united and celebrated on October 31 by both Celtics and Romans.

Christianity was declared to be the official state religion of the Roman Empire by Constantine in 313 A.D. While the Romans accepted this religion into their culture, Christians came to embrace some Roman practices for the sake of unity. This included the Celtic/Roman holiday festivities on October 31, which was honored by the Catholic Church as a day to commemorate the death of the saints. Later, in the eighth century, Pope Gregory III had the Roman Catholic festival honoring the dead moved to the first of November. In the ninth century, Pope Gregory IV decreed this day was to be observed as "All Saints Day" or "All Hallows Day". The previous evening of October 31 was then considered to be "All Hallows Eve" or "Hallowe'en".

With so much association with death I don't think these ancient customs would be fitting for a wedding. However, focusing on the wedding customs of the Druids, Celts, or Romans might work for you. I imagine these wouldn't be too far off from the secret Scottish wedding scene in the movie "Braveheart".

Hope this link helps too! :-)

2006-08-18 05:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Matthew 1 · 0 1

i imagine of it this way: having a greenback dance at a wedding ceremony, a wishing properly, a funds tree or inspite of is partaking in a convention. quite a number of cultures have a good time marriages in this way, and for a lot of human beings it is area of the exciting and really saves the difficulty of a visit to Macys. consisting of on your invitation a request for funds or presents is an argument of etiquette because you're implying, no matter if you recommend to or no longer, that giving presents (the presents you want, of route) is needed of travelers. This large difference might want to look a touch stupid because such an rather good type of human beings doesn't dream of exhibiting up for a wedding ceremony with no present. inspite of the undeniable fact that the present is a fashion of celebrating, no longer a call for. The invitation is meant as a honor to the recipient, a fashion of holding "I care adequate about you to desire you at my wedding ceremony." Diminishing that message with a funds grab is rude. eventually, i imagine etiquette is frequently about demonstrating understand for human beings more effective than following some ridiculous record. Chewing such as your mouth closed is well mannered because staring at 1/2 chewed food is disgusting, no longer because bypass over Manners says it is well mannered. it truly is a fashion of respecting your eating companions. briefly, traditions might want to correctly be executed in options that are preserving with etiquette and in options that are not. enable's take something less than no circumstances about funds: the entire garter toss. If the groom receives rid of the garter, strains up his unmarried associates, and tosses it over his shoulder, that's extremely fantastic. on the different hand, the groom might want to stick his head up the bride's dress and root round even as the groomsmen make a ruckus. Granny is embarrassed and the minister is blushing. the daddy of the bride needs to kick the groom in the pants. it is nevertheless "classic," inspite of the undeniable fact that the groom isn't demonstrating understand for his travelers. So. I say both concerns are equivalent and by no skill unique.

2016-11-26 00:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

THERE ARE NO RITUAL CUSTOMS SPECIFICALLY FOR HALLOWEEN WEDDINGS....BEEN TO ONE ALL WORE FUN COSTUMES....WHY DOES ANYONE GET MARRIED ON HALLOWEEN ITS SO UNREAL

2006-08-18 05:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by flowerspirit2000 6 · 0 2

nope.

2006-08-18 05:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by neshama 5 · 0 1

http://www.halloweddings.com/
http://www.westchester-weddings.com/wedding_ideas_halloween.asp
http://www.zilltech.com/FAQWeddings.html
http://www.hatteras-hammocks.com/halloween/halloweenwedding/
http://weddingfavorslist.com/halloweenweddingfavors/index.html

2006-08-18 05:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 4 · 1 0

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