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i am 21 been married for 2 years. i cheated on my man when we were seperated(i told him) well now he wants to share me not only with women but with men i feel weird about this what yall think? i mean i am kinky to an extent but i just don't know about all that

2006-08-18 05:05:44 · 30 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

30 answers

Well...it's weird that he wants to share you but not himself. If he's using the fact that you cheated on him to get you to do this then you have to say no...there's something definitely wrong there. But if he's not then ask him to explain more to you about what it is he wants you to do.
I have to say though that you were married pretty young and if you cheated then something wasn't right between you two in the first place.
You're only 21...you need to do what's best for you.

2006-08-18 05:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Munchy Mooneo 3 · 0 0

Real love doesn't try to get you to do something your not comfortable with. Every man's fantasy is for his woman to get it on with other women but the fact that he wants you have sex with other men shows that he is more concerned with his turnons than with your relationship. After time if you give in and do this he'll start feeling that your going along with this only showed that you wanted to be with other men too and no matter how much you tell him that you only did it for him won't change how he views you. Trust me I've been there and done that for my husband and we split up because of it. I'm also 21. And kinky is such a miss used word. When you do things with your husband your trying to keep the passion alive and burning. Nobody wants to get in a sex rut. So we all do things that others call kinky but the majority of people do them. Anyhow its your relationship and hindsight is always to late so beware.

2006-08-18 05:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by AMBER K 2 · 0 0

Go for it!! Its so much fun!!! You will completely enjoy yourself. But.... A word of caution. These kind of Open relationships are much better when there is 100% trust between both people. So if you two completely trust eachother now, I say go for it... If not, and I mean even the slightest bit of distrust... Dont do it, You will ruin what you have.

2006-08-18 05:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0 0

you recognize the girl likes you and you like to ask for her cousins quantity. What a slap interior the face.... guy you dont do a woman like that. admire the ladies folk thoughts get the quantity yet in a diverse way. I grant you with a warning of this once you do you threat loosing them the two so dont be taken aback...... locate yet another attempt to pluck your fruit from. d

2016-09-29 10:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Well hes thinking your a bad girl and now that he knows you did that hes trying to get you to do 3 somes with him for some sore of gratitude.

2006-08-18 05:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0 0

If you dont want to do it.. then dont. If he doesnt respect that, then he is taking advantage of you. I would imagine that he is trying to make you do this to make you "pay" for what you did. Dont do anything you arent comfortable. I would get some help on your marriage, and learn to trust again. Good Luck

2006-08-18 05:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by WestWife 3 · 0 0

First you need to work out your feelings about it and then you can make a decision. If it is sometime you are interested in, go for it. but if you aren't 100% comfortable with it. don't do it. and don't let he try to talk you into it.

2006-08-19 07:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by gearjammer63670 3 · 0 0

Marrige is a special bond that is shared between two people. It should be shared with no1.

2006-08-18 05:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by kayemethan 1 · 0 0

get a divorce cause then you can take his money for being a ******* freak, then you can spend that money on make whores... send him a video of you enjoying his money, but of course if he is poor then just break up live in an apartment and dont get a divorce cause it will cost too much money

2006-08-18 05:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 0 0

I think that maybe you should try to find another relationship and get out of the one you are in. I think he might just be trying to get back at you.

2006-08-18 05:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0 0

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