I met a guy a couple of months ago and since the very beginning we had a very strong connection. Physically, he is not my type, although he is not bad looking. His personality captivates me and we have a wonderful time together.
I've always been a bit physical... always been with someone that I am attracted to since the very beginning, although I know it's not all that matters.
What should I do? Is it possible that the more you get know someone, the more attractive (overall) he or she becomes to you?
2006-08-18 05:03:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When i started to date my guy, he wasn't my type AT ALL and I wasn't his. but we knew for some reason that we had to see each other again. needless to say, we continued to connect. Now when we look at each other, we can't get enough. He is so d*mn cute it's sexy. So yeah, you can get more attracted to someone over time. In ways you probably never could imagine.
2006-08-18 05:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by T.G. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed. I met this guy when I was 16, he was so into me but I was not into him (physically) we became pretty good friends spent everyday together and after time he grew on me. He excepted me as a person and didn't judge anything I did. I decided to give him a try ended up marrying him...don't say no to happiness just because he is not cute enough for you...he might just be your sole mate!
2006-08-18 12:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, think about it, when someone is okay looking but has a great personality, they become more attractive over time, when someone is good looking & has a bad personality(arrogant, rude, etc) they become less attractive & even boring over a period of time.
2006-08-18 12:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with looks. It is the connection that means the most. If you have a strong connection with someone you want to be with them. And don't want to loose them. What do looks matter, really? If you feeel strongly about someone.
2006-08-18 12:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True beauty comes from within......and yes over time the more you get to know someone the more attractive they are to you. Count yourself lucky for meeting someone you click so well with....
2006-08-18 12:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps. But sometimes, the more you get to know someone, the more you hate him.
That's why, over-knowing someone is not always good. There must always be a limit to it.
2006-08-18 12:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by I don't care anymore. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the more you know and love things about them the more love you end up having for them. you seem to really like this guy, sit back and enjoy the ride!
2006-08-18 12:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i have thought about this a lot, because i am in the same situation with my bf, we have been together for 6 months, he is so sweet, usually i like taller guys and my bf is a lot shorter than me, i used feel stupid standing next to him, but when it is just us together it is awesome, so i have to remember that it doesnt mater what other people think
hope i helped!!!!!!
2006-08-18 12:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if the personallity fits, he will eventually seem more and more attractive as your feeling grow.
2006-08-18 12:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by mrodrx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes when you are with someone you tend ot love and grow with that person even though there not your type of person.
2006-08-18 12:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋