favor. last night i was horny and i told him so when we got in bed he was naked. he always wants me to give head ( i dont mind) but i didnt because when he gets off its like hes done he doesnt want to do any thing else but go to sleep. so i didnt do it and i got mad and he laid there he didnt even try anything on me he rolled over so i whipped out my toy and he got up and went to the living room so i got up and asked him y and he said i cant sleep with that thing vibrating . he always uses the excuse im tired or i have to work in the morning. i got mad and slammed the bedroom door and he came in there and i told him i was tired of his games and i was tired of him getting pleased and not me. he said he felt lke our relationship was all about sex. i said well im sorry u feel that way. then all of a sudden hes snoring. so i go and sleep on the couch he gets up and acts like every thing is fine kisses me and goes to work. what do i do? dont say leave him cause im not!!
2006-08-18 04:55:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well then you have a problem if he's not giving you it he's giving someone else it so sorry i would say when he wants to get please don't do it and when he wants it give him the same excuse he gives you and let him see how it feels
2006-08-18 05:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need to change the situation when you get in bed. I mean trying doing other things besides giving him head or make him do you first and if he doesn't want to then to be honest the relationship is just about sex. And not for the both of you but for him..He's the only one getting anything out of it.
2006-08-18 05:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by MIA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know what, if u don't want to leave him then why post ur problem knowing that there's a possibility that someone might say that?
if i were u i'd stop giving head.. or at least stop giving head until he's pleased u 1st or until after u've had sex.. it sounds like u keep encouraging his behavior.. u complain, but u still keep giving him head.. what sense does that make??
he telling u he feels ur relationship is about sex, but he's the only one getting some so how is that?
u need to have a sit down and stop giving head and if there's no change than LEAVE HIS NO GIVING UP THE SEX A S S
2006-08-18 05:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is straying away from you. In my experience if I guy only wants blowjobs and not to have sex he is gettign the sex somewhere else. To some guys this is considered "only sleeping with one person at a time". Confront him or cut him off.
2006-08-18 05:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by redladywolf55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea: Go ahead and get him nice and started up first. Then stop. Tell you you want to go first this time. He'll be so worked up that he will have to have you finish. You go and then top him off. He is a selfish lover so you will have to trick him.
2006-08-18 05:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by ariola2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop pleasing him if he isn't willing to return the favor. Tell him that it makes you feel used, and don't put out until he makes a few compromises
2006-08-18 05:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him or be prepared for a life time of using a toy while he gets what he wants. He is a user.
2006-08-18 05:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by chief8166 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like the way it smells. Ask him is that why he won't give you head in return.
2006-08-18 05:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Try You 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have him do it first before u give him head
2006-08-18 05:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Antonio 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋