If you die before your mate and your mate remarries what happens when your mate dies? does your mates soul come to you or will it wait on the newer wife? i know this ? is kinda confusing but i love my husband so much that if i die i don't want him to live the rest of his life alone but he's my soulmate. i am so confused about this.
2006-08-18 04:52:57 · 28 answers · asked by notyours 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Thanks for the answers. I'm not talking about sex, i'm talking about the "love" i feel for him. My sould would be only half if he were not with me spiritually.
2006-08-18 05:13:13 · update #1
A soul mate is not who they are because they are with you, nor does time and space have any bearing on this fact. When you die or become physically seperated from your soulmate, it will only mean just that. If your soulmate then finds another love, it has no affect on the love that the two of you share. None of the other loves in your mate's life change this and neither should that one. Try not to worry about what will happen when you die, because it is literally a waste of the life that is happening now.
2006-08-18 05:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by BuzzRocket 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter after you or after when he dies. His love is embedded in your spirit no matter how many women he has or will love.
I understand your obsession. Trust me, I've been dead before, after you die, the obsession and ponderance of souls, spirits, and all those cliche will not be as important.
You see when you die, you realize that love is greater than any two individuals love for one another. Consequentally, the universe is light and darkness in a sort of harmony in an unlimited space with an unlimited time.
Your love for each other, whether it lasts a week, one night stand, or wonderous eternity is merely a metaphor for the point of our existance which is: to witness that which we are a part of.
Some call it god's work;
Some call it universal suffering;
others call it whatever their religious doctrine call it.
I simply call it beautiful.
2006-08-18 12:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is essentially the problem with soul mates, it gets a bit sticky when one of you dies.
You are very generous to want him to remarry rather then being cremated,put in a can of paint,and painted on the bedroom wall!
So where does that leave you in your afterlife? What about the feelings he has for his new wife? What if you start dating in heaven?
Hmmm relationships get tougher in heaven.
Not a good sign.
2006-08-18 12:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Katy_Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Biblically speaking, there is no marrying or marriage in HEAVEN.
But then I think what you are asking is will your soulmate find you after this life.
Honestly, I feel sometimes as if I have been here a thousand times...
ofcourse the BIBLE says," once to live and once to be judged".
But come on, I believe all things are possible with GOD.
And yes I believe your soulmate will find you no matter where you are.
2006-08-18 12:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by djyo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't know the exact answer but I have a feeling that u are allowed to find another partner if your mate dies and that after death the proper allignment of all parties will happen with no hard feelings and a perfect understanding. This will be heaven.
2006-08-18 11:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, from a biblical standpoint, Jesus says we are like the angels in heaven- neither married nor given in marriage. Thus the common wedding vow, "till death do us part". Once we die, we will no longer be married.
Since I subscribe to that particular belief, I rest assured that though I found my perfect partner here on Earth, God will more than satisfy me in heaven. Extra partners or not. Besides, it's heaven. I hope heaven is better than trivial things like sex and jealousy.
It never said anything about not remaining friends in Heaven. So that would be like an added bonus.
2006-08-18 11:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by runnerpadilla 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Eccl 12:7 then the dust will return to the earth as it was, and the spirit will return to God who gave it.
In both cases this is what happens.
In heaven, the place where God is, there is no marrying or togetherness as it is here on the earth.
No huggy bears and kissy faces.
Mat 22:30 "For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.
2006-08-18 12:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by chris p 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's beautiful that you and your husband love each other so much! But instead of dwelling on what happens after death, focus on the here and now, the present. Time is of the essence, and you can't take back time wasted...spend each day appreciating each other and the people around you.
2006-08-18 11:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by mdel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that there is a plan for all of us, you must believe that the plan's Architect has worked out the little kinks like this. Love your husband while you are with him, never let a day go by without telling him that you love him. Eternity will take care of itself.
2006-08-18 11:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Schmorgen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
beilive it or not, statisically when one mate of a soul couple dies the other dies from missing the other shortly after- so if he remarries then maybe he wasnt really your soul mate after all. I could tell you for a fact if my mom died tommorrow my dad would probably die in a year because he missed her so much.
2006-08-18 11:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋