i'm sad because the only single and attractive guy that i find around me acted like he likes me but yesterday that he had a chance to see me at work he never showed up/ he never called/. i had a crush on him ... i get the feeling that he is already in a relationship... it hurts... i wish he wasnt ever that nice and gentle with me...
2006-08-18 04:48:52 · 33 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay pick yourself up and quit the poor me pity party. Believe me its not worth it. Gives you red rimmed eyes and you don't want anyone to see that. Now, you need to keep yourself busy and not wait for the dude to come around. He could be playing head games or maybe he was busy, or maybe he forgot.
2006-08-18 04:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys may seems like they liek you or give you the impression that they do becasue thats how all guys are were always nice to gurls and sometime we give the wrong impressions...im sorry to hear that, that happened to you...but are you sure if he is in a relationship...try and bring up something to talk to him when you get a chance and try and ask him what hes doing on the weekend...and see if he says if hes doing anything with his gurl..otherwise if that dosent work just ask him straight out....but im sorry that, that happened to you...it will hurt gurls give me the wrong impression all the time tellin me they love me and stuff but im sure if you can figure out if he has a gurl then you can go from there but make it so your hard to get cuz ever dude wants what he cant have
2006-08-18 05:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ty C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, that is so sad i kinda know how you feel because i sorta going through the same thing. This guy liked me for 2 years, and i kept blowing him off (he says).i was in a relationship at that time.that went bad and now a year later i want him. But now i really really like him. his says he likes me but we dont really talk, but he says that he wants to get school together first, before he gets into a serious relationship, and i respect that, But he always on that DAMN myspace. i dont know what to do either. can u help me???
2006-08-18 05:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by myjamai05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why dont u confront him and see what's up! Don't live in a fantasy, if you really like him and u think he likes you, find out for yourself. If he does like you, ask him if he's in a relationship w/ someone else and if not, then he's all yours, maybe he just had a rough day, who knows! But you may never know if you dont ever find out right?
2006-08-18 04:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Informer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be sad at all sometimes our crushes can make us put ourself in the worst situation andmake us wish like hell that we should have kept pur feelings to ourselves... , So count your blessings and just let the lusting take care of itself you will be better off and probably not so sad later on when start smiling with and for the right one for you...peace,love
2006-08-18 04:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if you thought he was in a relationship, you should have never invited him to your work to see you, sometimes we need to think about others feelings instead of our own, maybe you should find out if he is in a relationship, then if he is not, ask him why he didnt show up, he may have a good reason, but if he is in a relationship, leave him alone.
2006-08-18 04:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that sucks and there is nothing you can do about it but i think that u are just makin urself too available... everyone knows what guys want most is somethin they cant hav. try not payin so much attention to him.. dont invite him to come see you and if you are the one hoo always calls him stop and for the first 2 days if he calls you eitha dont answer or make a quck excuse to not call him
2006-08-18 04:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call, give him a chance to tell you why he didn't show up. You never know what could've happen to him .... Someone could have tripped and fell on his d*ick..j/k
Seriously, ask him what's the deal. You don't have time for his game.
2006-08-18 04:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he has a reasonable excuse as to why he didn't show. But when he tells you what it is, if it sounds like bull, let him go.
2006-08-18 04:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by gemone523 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
R u guessing or do you know that hes in a relationship? then you have to ask, does he know that you like him and that hes supposed to like you or are you just assuming that you dont have to work to get your man and that he should come to you? So if you wont him let him know if he wants you hell make his decision.
2006-08-18 04:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by bigmj75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋