The guy of my dreams is moving to Australia this Monday and I wil probably never see him again. We have never had sex or anything but this Saturday a bunch of his friends and my friends are going out partying and I think both him and I are under a silent understanding that we will probably end up having sex. Problem is there is a 75% chance I will have my period. I have never been in this situation before and need help. If I do get my period what do I tell him? Do I still atleast make out with him or will he be mad if we make out and I have to stop it from going further (guys especially answer that one)? Also, is there a way to delay your period for 24 hours. I'm sure there isn't but any info would help from people that have been in this situation.
2006-08-18 04:48:09 · 21 answers · asked by Stef B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the pill
2006-08-18 04:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving up your virgin is a major thing. You will probably never see this guy again and giving your virgin isn't going to make him stay.
If you are on your period just tell him that it's that time of the month and you didn't plan on it happening that day. You can still make out with him just be careful his hands don't go down south. If he is mad that you stop b/c you feel uncomfortable having sex while on your period than that tells you that he just want one thing all along. There is no sure way to delay your period unless you are on birth control you can skip your pill for that day.
If you aren't on your period than be sure this is what you want to do and use protection. You should go buy some b/c some guys "forget" and you want to be safe. I hope this help you.
2006-08-18 12:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can delay your period with birth control pills. but i'm not a doctor and i wouldn't recommend it since i don't know your body and again, I'm not a doctor. also, even if you take the birth control pills, be aware that you can get pregnant or worse. so please wear a condom. some guys don't mind having sex while the girl is on their period. I've done it before. it's dark in the room so my bf didn't ever really mind. just make sure to have some tissue around to clean up with and use a condom! if you are early in your cycle, then there shouldn't be too much blood.
2006-08-18 11:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because u have a makeout session doesn't mean it has to lead to sex.. now if he wants some and keeps pushing for it then let him know that u have ur friend and maybe there will be a next time..
he can either accept it or not accept it..
now if u were on birth control pills then what u would've done was instead of taking the last row (placebo pills) then u would start a new pack and u won't get it.. it's just like the pills that they have where u get ur pd for 4times a yr..
2006-08-18 11:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel that you have to have sex with him just because he's leaving. That's no excuse. It seems to me that that guy is only using you to get into your pants. And if you do have your period I wouldn't suggest having sex. It's disgusting in my opinion. Go out and have a good time. Send him off with a fond farewell. If he gets upset because there was no sex than I believe that will be your answer.
2006-08-18 12:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is a way to stop period for at least 48 hours. I give u the formula its a pill.
2006-08-18 11:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are on your period it is a sign telling you not to do this. If you do, it will probably hurt ore when he leaves. Just know that you guys can be friends and if it's meant to be it will.
I'm sorry I konw that can be hard, but sex won't change the fact he's leaving. It won't make it any easier.
2006-08-18 11:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your on birth control, skip the pill in the middle, it will delay your period for a month
2006-08-18 11:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him vut to some guys wontr make a difference anyway. you can either use towels or the shower if you decide to do ut. no way to stoip it from ha[ppening though(the pereiod i mea) jusyt best ytop be up front or you could hook up tonight instead
i feel obligated to tell you though this may not be such a great idea because what if hes gone and your pregnant, a;lso making love to him will only make your feelings stronger
2006-08-18 11:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.......Different hormones and sometimes things as simple as a diet pill can affect your period, but you should tell him straite away that you have it then ask him if it bothers him....tell him weither its heavy or not, in my experence when it comes to guys and sex they don't care about anything. If he says it won't bother him then do it missonary and put a old shirt or a towel underneath you and enjoy
2006-08-18 11:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just get him to understand and you can have sex with your period on but if that's to nasty for you just go and take sum birth control pills that can stop it from coming on that day good luck or you and him can do it now while you period isn't on
2006-08-18 11:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋