2006-08-18 04:44:48 · 34 answers · asked by Innocence 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, there is no reason for that guy to be interested in you unless he is perverted. That means your relationship is bound to be shortlasting because he is going to find some other 16 yr. old that's more interesting or he might just get tired with the whole 16 yr. old thing and move to... i don't know... 13 and 14 year olds. After all, they are more naive.
No, if I were in your positions, my question would be "how do you get a restraining order?"
2006-08-18 04:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's rape sweety.
and he will treat you like his daughter. what can you offer a 31 year old man besides sex? is this all you are worth? mentally you are not on a level with a 31 year old. i know this for a fact because if you were mature enough mentally to be on the level of a 31 year old you would have never asked this question.
and let me reverse it. What does a 31 year old man want with a 16 year old girl? you're a child. why does he want a child to be a partner in a relationship? why can't he find someone his own age to be with? do women want him? if not maybe you should be asking why older women dont want to be with him. Maybe they are mature enough to decipher that something isnt quite kosher with him.
you need to do a background investiagtion on this man because something isn't right. he is a pedophile. and pedophiles love children. You probably aren't the only girl he is after. You need to watch Dateline from time to time when they have the pedophiles on there. That is what your man is, a hungry pedophile.
if you are hurt by my words then i am sorry but the truth really does hurt. there is no falsehood or opinion in what i just said. Anyman that wants to be with a kid is a pedophile and needs to be locked up in a maximum security prison with the key thrown away.
2006-08-18 05:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking if it's legally OK, the answer is No - depending on what state your in. If you're asking on a more personal level, then the question you should be asking yourself is, what do you really have in common? And, if he's 31, then why does he have so much in common with a 16 year old?
You aren't going to be 16 forever and the likes and dislikes you have now can change dramatically over the course of a year. So is it really worth it to date someone so much older, when you haven't really established who you are yet?
In the end, it's really up to you (that is if your parents don't call the cops). And if you're offended by this answer, then you've just answered the question for yourself.
2006-08-18 04:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by MelTing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope and I will tell you y:
I was in a relationship with a 32yr old(I am 18) and even though sex was great he had an attitude towards me that I never liked. Like for example, if I said anything wrong, he would get mad, if I did something wrong he would explode and make me feel bad. And even if he says he is gonna change, he is not going to... If was really hard to break up but I had to do it for myself. He is too old for you, I know that you might feel attracted to older guys(at least I do) but it's not going to work out, he is twice your age and he is just going to take advantange of you like the other guy did to me. What if he wants to move in with you???? Then you wont be able to study and will have to work 40hr+ a week to support the apartment or the house.
PLZ DON'T DO IT
It's also illegal in some states...
2006-08-18 04:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no u canot have relationship with a 31 year man he can do something 2 u and it col be bad so no u can't go with a 31 year old man
2006-08-18 04:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NOOOOOOO
thats so perverted.. im 18 and i wouldnt go out with a 31 yr old,
your only 16 your still a child and hes a fully fledged adult.. hes a pedo if he tries anything on with you.. what on earth does a 31 yr old have in common with a 16 yr old, he must very immature and a weirdo that knows no bounds
2006-08-18 04:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What country do you live in? Are you legal age? If so then it depends on his personality... does he really care about you or is it just a fling for him. I wouldn't really advise it but if you are sure that is what you want and are willing to live with the consequences should there be any, go ahead and have the relationship. If you can't live with the consequences I suggest that you date someone in youe age range 16 - 21.
2006-08-18 04:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Joyann R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, The guy is 31, he is a pervert. Ask yourself why is this man interested in young girls. You are too young to be in a "relationship" concentrate on school and your future.
2006-08-18 04:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Josie31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about a more than friendly relationship, no it is not. If this 31 year old is hitting on you he has other agenda's and believe me alot of baggage.
2006-08-18 04:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
when i met my now husband, i just turned 16 and he was 32. Now im 22 and he is turing 38 in a couple of months. been married for almost 4 years, and have a beautiful baby girl. Good luck..
2006-08-18 04:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋