I dont want to pass it up. Sometime i look at him and get that awww i love u feeling then sometimes not. Its only been a few weeks and he says he loves me. Is it ok that im not head over heels already is it possiblethat this time it will just be slower?
2006-08-18 04:42:50 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it could be and if you really want it to work you shouldn't try to speed it up or rush the situation. Just be happy with what you have right now and maybe it could change later.
2006-08-18 04:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're lacking chemistry, which is really necessary to begin the glue that forms a relationship. Trust, deep love, etc. all take time to grow, but if you don't have that "zing" for him...it may be your nose (believe it or not) telling you that you're not interested in him that way. There are receptors in the nasal passageway that pick up unscented scents (if that makes sense, pardon the pun!) that are called Pheremones (a type of a hormone released...each person's scent is unique). You can't be in true love after such a short time (not usually; that takes time), but you do need to feel attraction and some passion at first.
2006-08-18 04:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, If you don't have this feeling from the start, it's hopeless.
It seems more that you like who he is as a person, from an objective point of view but not from the heart. He doesn't make your heart beat faster.
It is true that a relationship built on friendship lasts longer but there should be deeper feelings buried underneath otherwise it will just remain a shallow entity. You will both end up being hurt in due time.
2006-08-18 04:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Avatar13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't always having that "fireworks" feeling, sometimes it is just being comfortable with the other, feeling safe, respected, trusted. Don't try to have more feelings than you do for him just because he says he loves you. Be honest with yourself, and if you have doubts, then maybe you just adore some qualities in him, but not the rest and would be happier just being friends.
2006-08-18 04:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by thatslife59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things have to go slow in order to work. But if you just dont think it will work out then you should end it asap.
2006-08-18 04:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to rush into anything. take it all at your own pace so you're comfortable. chances are that if you're confused about loving this guy, then you don't and that's okay. just take it slow and maybe those feelings will develop.
2006-08-18 04:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by moglinferno21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time, but make sure you listen to your heart and your gutt feelings.if you dont feel for him then move on.
2006-08-18 04:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time sweety. If he has traits that you find attractive maybe it might develop into more.
2006-08-18 04:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little longer and see how you feel then.
2006-08-18 04:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving way to fast.
2006-08-18 04:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Justlookin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋