My boyfriend was sleeping on the couch and I kept tryin' to wake him up cause I wanted him to come sleep with me in the bed. But he wouldn't wake up for nothing. So, then I attempted to get him up by sucking on his neck. Normally he likes this, but he pushed me off of him and was wiping off his neck like it was just the nastiest thing. So that kinda pissed me off. Didn't make me feel very good. I've got a bit of anxiety and started coming up with all kind of reasons for his behavior. What do you think was going on? Our relationship is pretty good...
2006-08-18 04:21:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it was something in his dream...don't worry about it..my fiancee always frowns when I wake him up but this is just because he hates getting up in the morning and loves his sleep :)
If it is really bothering you ask him about it...i'm sure you will find it was nothing
2006-08-18 04:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by loopytoo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not personal. i think the fact that you did it while he was sleeping is what annoyed him. it would annoy me if my gf randomly starting sucking on my neck while i was sleeping. he was probably really tired, and really didn't see the need to move. however, i suggest you speak to him about it, and explain what you're feeling about it. it's probably nothing, just a minor irritation in the heat of the moment. in future, i'd recommend just kissing his neck, or his lips, very lightly, because when my gf does that, it ALWAYS works, and i never push her away when she does that. dont just lunge in, you've got to be soft...delicate when you're doing things like that. hope i helped. good luck.
2006-08-18 04:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill if its a one time thing. Not all guys prefer to be woken in that manner. Look over it and leave the neck sucking to intimate times.
2006-08-18 04:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Just wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just sleeping. I wouldn't worry about it. people tend to do weird things when they sleep. ask him about it and he'll probably say that he had no idea because he was so tired. people do things in their sleep that they normally wouldn't do awake and they then don't even realize it. if it concerns you that much then ask him about it and make sure that he really does like it when you suck on his neck.
2006-08-18 04:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me... if i sleep i don't want any body to disturb me ... specially if am really tired... i think that u tried to do some thing nice but he is in a state where he doesn't know what is he doing... so don't bother... i think that he will not remember it after waking up or if he do... he will apologize for it... take it easy. and try to avoid him while sleeping
2006-08-18 04:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ceser Salad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably just startled him to wake up that way. When I'm sleepy, even things that normally would feel good and get me in the mood feel awful. My husband has to get used to that, I can't help it.
2006-08-18 04:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him and ask him what's going on? Try to do it in a way that will not upset him. Be calm. Do not raise your voice. If he freaks out and starts yelling and sreaming, tell him that you will try talking to him when he has calmed down and walk away.
2006-08-18 04:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
laziness. :))
course I don't know anyone who would rather sleep on the couch then next to a woman. Unless of course you don't get along anymore.
2006-08-18 04:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating boyfriends sleep on the couch maybe next time instead of sucking and licking kick him then ask him does she do it better
2006-08-18 04:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by pretty gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called DEEP SLEEP. Get over it.
2006-08-18 04:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋