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he still acts like we're dating and such.
i mean, i know he still loves me and i still love me.
so is there anything i can do?

2006-08-18 04:20:03 · 7 answers · asked by Shteph™ 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

he still calls me all the time.
tells me whats hes going to be doing.
he still calls me baby
and he wants that we take any kind of relationship slow.
is there a chance that we can get back together?

2006-08-18 06:44:14 · update #1

he still calls me all the time.
tells me whats hes going to be doing.
he still calls me baby
and he wants that we take any kind of relationship slow.
is there a chance that we can get back together?

2006-08-18 06:44:17 · update #2

7 answers

Sometimes we break up for reasons that later seem silly. Or maybe the two of you have changed over time and you're ready to try again. Whatever the reason, desperation excluded, you can certainly try these tips to win back your love.

1 . Be sure of yourself. Assertiveness and self-confidence are naturally attractive to most people. Showing your guy you're capable of being happy is appealing and brings a natural desire.

2. Don't expect instant results. Casually ask if he'd like to do something non-committal, like have a drink with friends, play miniature golf, play tennis, etc. Something friends and first dates alike can do. And whatever it is, keep it fun.

3. Skip out on the serious talks for now. You'll have plenty of time to talk about that later. That's very threatening to a lot of guys. If he initiates it, follow his lead. But don't go heavy.

4. # Let him know you were thinking about him. Remember that one time you two went to dinner at that great new restaurant and had a fabulous time? Leave him a short email telling him you ate there recently and thought of him. And, by the way, how is he doing? This is a non-threatening way to have a light conversation, and also, a small request for a reply back.

5. Woops, you still have his favorite shirt? Well, don't get all weird about it when you "just want to return it". Ask if you can drop it off or mail it to him and see how things go from there.

6. Respect his wishes. If he's seeing someone else, don't try to sabotage his relationship. That just shows him how selfish you are. If he's done, he's done, and you should move on. Don't keep coming back and don't wait by making yourself available to him. You have a life, so live it! Some one else is out there right now waiting for a person like you.

exept all these tips.. you should

Be sure this is something you really want to try again.

Avoid abusive relationships and people who claim to have changed. If you feel this person has changed, try again slowly and don't get in too deep.

You are a unique and wonderful individual, remember that.

hope this will work for you .. hv a nice time

2006-08-18 04:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by SONI 2 · 0 0

If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck and acts like a duck, then it's probably a duck...

If you and your BF are acting like you're dating, then you're probably are dating... The person that needs to be convinced of this is probably not your BF, but you. If you two still care for each other, then you know what you two need to do.

Go have a sit down with him, and hear each other's feelings.

Good luck to you!

2006-08-18 12:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 0 0

maybe you should take the first step this time! tell him how you feel, like how you REALLY feel, tell him you love him and you hate being apart and you just want to be together again, and then give him a plate of cookies you made or something. good luck though! :)

2006-08-18 11:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by c3345 3 · 0 0

Since he still acts like your dating he must care for you so sit down and talk to him when its just you two around. Good luck

2006-08-18 11:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Just wondering 3 · 0 0

Yeah ask yourself why he is an ex bf.

2006-08-18 12:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0 0

Talk to him honestly.

2006-08-18 11:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 0 0

then talk to him and tell him how you feel then

2006-08-18 11:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0 0

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