My boyfriend invited me over his house the other day and when I went over there was another girl about my age right next to him, he told me that she's a friend of his. So we all went into his room, he shut the door and turned on music. His parents were on a buisness trip, so we were all alone. Then he started making out with me and then started making out with the other girl. He told us that we were all going to have a "show" and just to go with the flow. So after a couple minutes of sex he told me and the girl to try "doing it" with each other, and we did. It felt good with both people. Is what I did right?
2006-08-18 04:15:41 · 17 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you had a good time then it's OK. So what if you like to swing both ways, it's frikkin' 2006 so enjoy yourself...
2006-08-19 09:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ren Hoek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why guys get off on the whole two girl thing - who knows. But, if you get right down to it - it's about infidelity. He's not being true to you because of the other girl, and you are "cheating" with her too.
He obviously has no respect for you or the other girl, he just wants to indulge his kinky fantasy.
Him using the phrase "have a show" I would worry that he videotaped the whole thing. And where is that tape, and what are his plans for it.
Get away from him FAST. He's trouble, and he's not going to change
2006-08-18 11:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is different. It depends on how you look at it. I don't think I would have done it because I am a jealous type of person. I want my man to be with me not some other bimbo. I think he set that whole thing up. Did you ever think that he might just want to have sex with that other girl and wanted your permission. I would not have done it because I would be afraid that he would enjoy being with that other girl more than me and it would definitely have caused problems in our relationship. He will probably try to continue to entise you to let other people into your relationship.
2006-08-18 11:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by rkb12584 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might have felt good but i have a feeling he is playin with u. think about it for a moment, the moment u stepped into his house u saw another girl around his age. what dos it tell u? he didnt even tell u about the arrangement. but if u dont think that there is any wrong with that then it is not wrong in ur eyes, that is of course if all 3 of u are above the age of minority
2006-08-18 11:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're too young and immature for this sort of thing... wait until you're old enough to make the decision to have a threesome rather than be pressured into it
2006-08-18 11:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, what you did was terrible wrong, you should have leave as soon as he start to make out with you or the girl. he allowed you and the girl to make out he doesnt want you hes playing both of you. i think you should forget about this guy or what happen. you have done a threesome its totally wrong.
2006-08-18 11:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by roanwq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend should of asked you if you wanted to do that. You dont find it alittle weird he had another girl over his house when you got there?
2006-08-18 11:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by kelli_q_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming u are at least 18---it is up to u--how and what sexual activity u perform....it sounds like u simply performed out a fantasy of his....did u enjoy it?---then it can't be wrong if u enjoyed it...u are the only one who can decide
2006-08-18 11:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the thing. if you enjoyed it, why give a sh*t what other people think? good for you for trying something new.......you never know till u try ;)
2006-08-18 11:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no is not right wat u did cuz he want to mees up yo life dont be stupid make the right chooce 4 yo life be SMART dont be a SLUG
2006-08-18 12:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋