There is a guy i work with, I have been with the company for about 2 months. What can i do to get his attention. He says hi to me when he passes by my desk. Rumour has it that he has a girlfriend. But its not confirmed. What can i do, i really like what i see.
2006-08-18 04:11:36 · 11 answers · asked by Sahem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make a point to ask him a question about the company such as a procedure or something and if that is not a possibility, then just go up to him and start introducing yourself to him saying since I am still new I would like to get to know who all I am working with and so forth. Show him that your not a scared person and that you are outgoing by approaching him, but nothing to aggressive just a friendly converstation and see where that leads and if he likes to talk just keep going and maybe it will lead somewhere. If e is kinda shy just take one conversation at a time.
2006-08-18 04:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatesyrup101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know why you wanna get his attention when he already keeps saying hi to you everytime he passes you which means that he sees you knows you're there sitting behind your desk. I'd encourage you to make a move like asking him if he would like to have a cup of coffee with him just as friends or co-workers. You could ask him next time he passes you and tell him you still havent had your usual cup of coffee and are wondering if he would like to have a cup of coffee with you....If he agrees,WOOOHOO!!! while you're at it have a nice conversation with him through which you can know alot about him...and see if the rumor is true. If it is then am sorry but I dont think there can be anything else for it...if they're just rumors then carry on with the conversation,ask him how he's doing,how's work, what is he into and at the end you could say "Thank you! Its been very nice!" and if he's smart enough he may get this hint to know that you kinda find him nice....and expect more coffee sessions like that in the near futur,maybe then dinner,dates,marriage...Ooops! I think I got a bit carried away lol! Just be yourself and do what I told you and just be nice....I think nice guys prefer nice women who are fun to talk to and hang out with.....and Good Luck!
2006-08-18 11:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Shady E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a super simple way to find out if he has a girlfriend and see if he is interested in you at the same time. As spontaneous as you can manage just say - "Hi, do you have a girlfriend?" Look at the reaction on his face, you will know if he has a girlfriend or not, and you will know if he is interested. Simple.
2006-08-18 11:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by cncman333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go dippin in the company ink well. Find a boyfriend outside of work. Your not in High School anymore. Its not professional to date a coworker.
2006-08-18 11:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by just a guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should just talk to him more. Be his friend and just hang out for awhile. Start a conversation with him. And maybe if he does have a girlfriend and they break up he knows he has a good friend there with him. But if he doesnt have one talk more and maybe he will ask you out.
2006-08-18 11:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by age 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never date ppl at work but, if u don't care about the fall out just compliment his tie, shoes whatever and say ur wife must love when u dress up and hopefully he says no wife and u say gf and hope 4 same response and say REALLY........wanna geta drink later??
2006-08-18 11:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Corner him in the copy room and make your move. You'll find out really fast if he is available or not.
2006-08-18 11:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by jmthomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casual conversation, get to know him better as a friend. Don't overdo the questions, otherwise he will retreat.
2006-08-18 11:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres only one way to find out what he thinks of you.............talk to him........and when u get a lil closer jus come out n ask him"what do u think of me".......thats how i got my first bf!haha..jus get a lil braver and jus talk to him,compliment him,n try to find out his intrests.Remember also that it's not jus "liking what u see" its liking his insides as well.Good luck girl=)
2006-08-18 11:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Albee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him but as friends
2006-08-18 11:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by brittttt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋