i am in 7th grade, and my friend and i have told someone we like them, and if she will decide which of us she likes. but every time we ask her, she says "im thinking about it" and drops it off
we both know she likes both of us, but we cant figure it out
ive seen movies with her, had lunch, shes been to my house, all the stuff you think would make you someones boyfriend. but we dont consider it a date because she hasnt decided yet.
i want to know if im the one for her, but she wont say anything to me or my friend! i want to stay friends with him, but this might destroy it. please help me!
2006-08-18 04:09:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes not pulling us around, becuase she has told us she likes each of us
also, she dones not lie, or or tease people
she is very nice
and bethany t, thats personal
2006-08-18 04:17:54 · update #1
holy S**t
did i say 7th?
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freshman, and weve been friends all through jr. high
2006-08-18 04:20:34 · update #2
hello there sport well let's get down to it this young lady is confused about who she want's at this time because both of you are somewhat competing over her now this is what I would do I would be the one to back of and let it go just a little reverse physocology and she will be wondering why you are not interested in her and start to favor you more. I hope ) but give this a try a just see what happens.
2006-08-18 04:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that girl should be the one asking this question instead of u. anyway, heres ur solution: either one of u take the initiative and move on to another girl, and the other can tell the girl what happened. this saves her the trouble of spoiling her friendship with the 2 of u. if u 2 dont start discussing who will go out with her soon, she might eventually end up NOT dating any one of u...so choose and fast
2006-08-18 11:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her some time. If she likes both of you, it's going to be a pretty tough decision. Don't put any pressure on her or it'll make her confused or angry. It seems like you all are good friends. Don't make her feel like if she doesn't choose you, you won't be friends anymore. That might be what she's scared about
2006-08-18 11:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anastasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she is trying to have her cake and eat it too. She is probably playing the both of you. She is getting to go do stuff with the both of you and as long as she says she hasn't decided yet and that your not boyfriend/girlfriend, she can keep on with the both of you. I think you two should make her decide before you do anything else with her.
2006-08-18 11:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All this over one girl. You're in the 7th grade so don't worry. Both of you will get over her fast especially when you enter High School. In all honesty and don't get disgruntled over this, I think she may not like any of you. Sounds like she either enjoys the attention or don't want to hurt your feelings.
2006-08-18 11:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need to move on! She's just pulling you guys around like puppies on leashes!
2006-08-18 11:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is give time to her to think about it, if she is serious and she doesn't play around like you said obviously she doesn't want to hurt you or him, but you have to show her that you really serious and respect her she would see that, good luck!!! and just be you
2006-08-18 11:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by gza_45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to choose or she will not get either of you.
2006-08-18 11:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What school do you go to??
2006-08-18 11:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by ~~SASSY~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋