Am I Bisexual or Lesbian?

Question

I get turned on by girlz and guyz, but prefer girlz. I love girlz porn, but can't stand guyz porn. Which am I, Bisexual or Lesbian?

I've been with guys & girls

Answer 1

if u still like guys.. then ur bisexual. if not then ur a lesbian.

Answer 2

Not enough information to know. Almost all women are turned off by guys porn cuz a lot of it degrades women. So that does not mean u are anything but normal that way. Girls porn has more of a story line with caring and explicit or not-so-explicit nudity. U say u prefer girlz so u may be leaning towards lesbian but maybe thats cuz u have not met many guyz who don't degrade women, anyway whatever u are follow your heart and good luck to u.

Answer 3

Ask yourself: If a really hot guy (like Ian Somerhalder or Brandon Boyd) came into your bedroom naked and hard as a brick, would it turn you on. If yes, then you're definitely NOT a lesbian.

Now, the bisexual part is tricky. Many women get turned on by g/g porn, partially because it's taboo. Now, does that mean these same girls would actually go out and do it themselves? No. In fact, most wouldn't.

Ask yourself: Aside from finding certain woman sexually attractive, do you also fantasize about having emotional relationships with them? Holding hands. Cuddling. That sort of thing. Yes. You're bi. No? It's just a fetish, never intended to come into materialization.

Don't worry yourself too much about it, though. If you're truly bi, you'll get around to it one day or the other.

Answer 4

doesn't matter, you're YOU! :) i would never have sex w/ a guy tho, so that's how I know..i'm not conceded or anything i just think no guy is worthy of ever touching me, i'm a total femme too people would never know. when i was younger (13yrs old) i thought i was bi, but now that i'm older i know for SURE, lol and i've learned that it doesn't matter; you don't have to label yourself one thing, there are so many different people in the world, w/ different opinions and lifestyles. Just go with the flow, be yourself, and do what makes you happy ♥

Answer 5

Obviously a bisexual individual with a preference for female porn.

Answer 6

i don't think you can base your sexual preference on porn.
have you been with girls? have you been with guys?
very few homo sapiens are ALL hetero or ALL homo. that's science (look at the bonobo monkeys). we're all "bi" to varying degrees, it's just that our homophobic culture/religions/society leads us to feel ashamed or embarrassed about this, so we wind up repressing it until it manifests itself as something else... i think you should feel it out (no pun intended) , get a few experiences under your belt and see how you feel about it. be honest with yourself and your needs.

and besides, what's the need for putting your sexuality in a box with nicely pressed labels anyway? do what feels right to you.


ps: one of my best friends is a 'lesbian' and has slept with a guy or 2 on a drunken occasion. 'straight' girlfriends have made out with other girls on more occasions... there's no definite line of demarcation (if youre open enough).

Answer 7

Lesbian.

Answer 8

I prefer girl porn. I don't like guy porn at all. I also like girls but i prefer guys. I am bisexual. It doesn't matter which you prefer. you are bisexual. If you like only girls then you would be lesbian.

Answer 9

Are you sure you want to label yourself? I'm wondering what's the difference with lesbian or Bisexual..Both is not the right thing to do..not the right way to think...
I think you are a Bisexual...

Answer 10

im the same as you r to mate,and i dont even no what i am, maybe if you try seeing a girl you will soon come to know what you would rather, but dont be shy about it at all, its only normal for some of us to go through this stage, a lot of women think about it but they will never let on, some women when they r walking past me, look at my boobs and its as if they want to have more, but mind you on the other side of them is their man talking to themlol so your not alone

Answer 11

bisexual! i don't like guy porn either and im straight! girl porn turns me on too! but i wouldnt get with a girl.. but yeah i don't think your a lesbian because if you were then guys wouldnt turn you on at all, i think!