Is this a bad thing?

Question

So Iam involved with this girl and me and her seem to like eachother ALOT and that's all cool but we seem to like eachother more at different times then the other. Like when Iam not with her I think about her all the time and call her at least every other day but she NEVER calls me so I always start to think she has lost intrest in me or something. But when Iam with her she is always all over me and kissing me every second and telling me how much she loves me and stuff so I tend to get confused. And she tells me that she gets confused because I seem to like her alot only over the phone or computer but when we are together she says I tend to back off. It's like she only shows me she has intrest in me when we are together and I only show intrest in her when we are apart...Is this Bad??? Is this weird???

Answer 1

you're both overcompensating.
You're overcompensating for feeling shes gone via phone/internet and she for in person.

You both need to make a conscience effort to try to balance it out, both make effort to give more in their weak areas

Answer 2

u like her when shes away because she giving u time to miss her. Guys dont like overkill, I bet if u guys hung out and she would just relax, give u seductive little looks, u wouldnt feel confused. U dont like her all over u, its annoying, kinda desperate, and seems like shes always the aggressor.
Tell her u like her a lot, but to chill ( tell her nicely though)

Answer 3

stop thinking about when she calls you and when she dosent. if you want to speak to her just pick up the phone and call her... dnt let little things like that get to u guys.. cuz stuff like that will turn into a big deal

Answer 4

Men need to call girls, its not the other way around.(Unless she has something to say to you)