my best friend just told me that my boyfriend may cheat on me to impress one of his friends. idk if he know that i liked the guy that he is cool wit but now i cant stand him and if he is into me lke he said he is then he wouldnt do it right? should i trust him or break it off and how long do i wait before breaking it off?
2006-08-18 03:27:54 · 16 answers · asked by *unknown* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm... we have been together for one day we broke up and within the next 31/2 hours we were back together he couldn't be without.
2006-08-18 03:36:48 · update #1
she is my best friend and he did like her and she never liked him and i trust my best friend.
2006-08-18 03:37:33 · update #2
umm.. the i LIKED i stopped liking like 11/2 ago and we havent taled since july something i hate him and i would never cheat on my baby
2006-08-18 03:39:38 · update #3
If I were you, I'd find a way to confront him about this.
I'd think of a way to say, "I have a feeling you are looking around for ways to put me down." or "Why do you need to impress people?" or "What do you think of that guy? Did you realize he wants me?" or "What would a guy do to get me to be angry with you--are you easily manipulated?"
If you are sure that your boyfriend is so easily manipulated, the main thing is to distance yourself from him. If he can't be loyal to someone who loves him because he needs to impress some other guy, dump him whether he does it or not. You need a boyfriend who is his own man, someone that listens to you and cherishes you.
2006-08-18 03:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand why you would have mix feelings about this. My advice is to talk with HIM. Do not ever allow a friend to confuse the situation. I don't know your friend personally, but have she ever been a situation where a guy has cheated? If so, she is probably in a place where she doesn't trust boys right now and is trying to help you avoid the same hurt feeling. Best friends are great that way, but it can sometimes get in the way of a possibly great relationship between you and your guy. Every woman has a special gift, it's called intuition. You have to start trusting in that. If you are having that gut feeling that he isn't being completely honest with you, your intuition alarm is going off and it is time to have a talk with him.
2006-08-18 10:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by annesome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like another person..break off with him..save some sin..
As for your best friend tell you about your bf, how much do you trust your best friend?If you trust your best friend more than your bf, break off... break off immediately..i find that you don't like him and don't trust him..so why wait when to break up and so..do it now...no point holding on...your heart is not with him..
2006-08-18 10:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, of all don't listen to that best friend of yours cause she might just want him for her self, cause people are back stabbing these days. This what you do watch your friend and your boyfriend cause in the end she might be the one he'll cheat with.
Watch out gurl!! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-18 10:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by brackens318 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really need 2 talk 2 ur bf very openly b4 takin any step further.
u cant jus break a relationship bcoz of sum1 elses thoughts or views
2006-08-18 10:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by tanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont react on something you have heard throught "the grape vine".... Get the facts first!! Unless of course you are looking for an excuse to break up with him.....
2006-08-18 10:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will cheat on you if that is what his friends expect. The sad part is that some chick will go along with it.
2006-08-18 10:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by M S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur g/f wants to start from where u stopped.
since u r also a cheater seeing u r already into another guy.
what u sow is what u reap.
what-u-give-is-what-u-get
straightenup pls.
2006-08-18 10:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by lifejourney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody deserves a chance. What if your friend is just jealous? Give it a try, see what he does. If he does, that's his loss, not yours.
2006-08-18 10:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him loose, the last thing you need is your heart broken.. Find someone who is mature and doesn't need to impress stupid friends.
2006-08-18 10:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋