Am I a bad person?

Question

I feel like am a bad person because I hurt my boyfriends feelings and sometimes it doesn't hurt me.like for example, only example.. he has this hat and du-rag that he wears and I know that he feels confident when he wears it because i conveince him to start wearing hats and I told him he look really good which I do mean. But now when he wears it I told him" hey you look drunk when you wear your hat to the side like that" I after that he gives me a sad face. I am a bad person for not really thinking about how he's going to feel, right?

Answer 1

I think you are a good person for even suggesting and thinking that you are a bad person for doing that. I do it all the time. I think honest opinions are very important as long as it is tasteful and doesn't have an alterior motive. ie. trying to put someone down for whatever reason there may be. But he knows that I love him and he values my opinion. And maybe that is what makes your boyfriend sad, is because he really values what you have to say. Don't read too much into it. Just be honest.

Answer 2

The conversation should have gone like this.
you- Hey I don't like the way you wear your hat, it makes you look drunk.

Him- I think it looks cool, I see other guys wearing their hats like this.

You- Please don't wear your hat that way it really makes you look bad.

Him- OK I love ya

Then move on no hard feelings.
This guy really lacks confidence if he got his feelings hurt that bad, over constructive criticism. You did nothing wrong so don't you feel bad.

Answer 3

You are just outspoken and insensitive but that does not make you a bad person.

Answer 4

no ur not a bad preson cuz of that but think b4 u talk i have that prob really really bad!!!!!!

Answer 5

no your not bad just some one who cares

Answer 6

your not a bad person......your a good person

Answer 7

your are not a bad person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i am telling ur a wonderful person