what should i do ?how to refuse her proposal.............pls help me!!!!!!!!!?

Question

i met a girl few yrs back.we both started liking each other .i used to like her just as a friend of mine but she developed a serious crush on me.some of my friends study in her class nd have told me that she deliberately loves me.then recently she proposed me.i was in a state of dilemma.i didnt know wat to do.my friends kept on bugging me to say yes to her.but after sometime i noticed that her studies were getting disturbed becos of me.as she thought of ways to impress me instead of concerntrating on her studies.i like her but i dont want to spoil her life just because of me so i said no again. now my friends bugging me again nd she also gave me a friendship band on friendship day .i had 2 accept it as i didnt want 2 hurt him .now i dont know wat 2 do further .kindly advice should i say yes 2 him or no

Answer 1

if you like maybe she will concetrate more on her studies. or tell her to do her studies first while it will give you time to think about it. dont forsget to tell her that you love her.

Answer 2

She likes u more than u like her, and that means u CANNOT marry this girl. Her life revolves around urs, do u want a woman like that. Tell her ur not ready to take such a big step, and that u cant marry her right now, but u can remain close( if u want to ).
Whats her rush. When its right its right, and if u have to ask u know this is wrong. Ur friends dont have to be the ones married to her, so tell them to speak for themselve, this is ur life, and u will be the one suffering the consequences in the future.

Answer 3

You could probably tell her you don't love her and talk to her and immediatly get one of your good girl friends to go out with you to keep her away. She might mentally breakdown a couple times mentally considering she knows nothing of this and has been going out with you for the past three years but there are a millions stars in the sky man.

Answer 4

if u really like the girl then talk 2 ur parents or other family and then say yes 2 her. if she is not the greatest grl u've ever met then sit down and talk 2 her and say "we werent ment 4 eachother sorry this wont work out no".best answer pleazeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

Answer 5

She proposed what? And what's the deal with all the friend bugging you with such a personal whatever aspect of you life it is! Are you g_y, by the way?

Answer 6

u start by telling the story and say that its a girl that proposed then u end with should i say yes to 'him' so is it a girl or a guy ur involved with? and if ur not in a relationship with him or her just make that clear to them

Answer 7

Honey, you should tell her the truth. Tell her she needs to concentrate on her studies. It sounds she is a bit "obsessed" by this relationship. Also, your friends need to quit bugging you.

Answer 8

i dont know much but i would say that --- U jus say her to concentrate on her studies and tell her that if she achieves her goal u would accept her proposal.so that she can do good in her studies with full confidence that u would accept her proposal.all the very best!!!!!

Answer 9

well I don't know too much about that, but you need to stick to your guns about saying no. It sounds like you're not ready for marrige since you have all these excuses about "her studies"
It sounds like she's very attached to you, and if you are going to
be together, then you need to lay down"ground rules"

Answer 10

explain her politely that there is no need to impress u . tell her u r seriously not intrested.tell her that u can be still friends. tell her to concenterate on her studies.and please do finish this matter early as possible because if u not get hurried she will have more missunderstandings.