how to overcome hurt ache.
2006-08-18 03:06:45 · 17 answers · asked by den-den r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, especially when those who are in love is blinded by it and could not seem to see whether the one they love is really and truly honest and faithful to them.
Well, it takes time for the heartache to heal. I believe you might have heard this before, that is - Time heals all wounds.
Although time will heal all wounds, I know that those whose feelings come straight from the bottom of the heart is difficult to heal. Think about it, you have given all your feelings to this person and he or she breaks your heart, definitely you will be hurt deeply.
Those feelings that involve love come in many different types, there are love from your partner, families, friends, etc., so as long as one person has really gave their love from deep within their heart and they are hurt in return, they will definitely find it difficult to get over it, I'm not saying its totally impossible, but rather it takes time, depending on how deeply they have given feelings.
2006-08-18 03:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by carebears0408 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say no. Although at first many of us would say that love lost or love gained took our attention away from other things, caused us to become wrapped up in the relationship and a list of other excuses we must consider one very important thing. Love cannot exist on its own; it needs something to fuel it.-- that being us. In essence, love does not ruin our lives. Sadly it is more often than not our inability to understand love. Be it emotions that got the better of us with our own jealousies, insecurities etc.
Love is a marvelous thing but will only be as successful as we help it to be. And should love go wrong... as it very well can we cannot dwell on the negative. Take a step back, look at the situation from an objective point of view, see what we did right, what we did wrong, learn for our experiences and move on. The less time we spend dwelling on the negative, the faster we can bounce back, go on loving ourselves and carry less baggage into your next potential relationship.
2006-08-18 03:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by blkprincess_d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as with most other aspects of life, love can ruin your life if and only if... you let it.
love is a wonderful thing. but the trick is not to get overwhelmed by the fairy-tale atmosphere built around it. being in love is not the pinnacle of life. it's just one phase of it.
and falling out of love is not the end of life. it sure can hurt, but it won't take over your life unless you let it. i'm sure moving on and forgetting the past is easier said than done. but you shouldn't be over-traumatized about it.
it WILL pass. and your success depends on how soon you can simmer the emotions down to at least "yeah, it might have been great. but oh, well. life moves on."
its your attitude that can determine how best you can overcome it. it might be hard, but try to think clearly...
2006-08-18 03:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Hammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only thing that can cure a broken heart. Try not to dwell on the past. Take one day at a time, one hour or even one minute. If you find yourself reliving the past channel your thoughts to the happier times, not the end of the relationship. Learn from your break-up, try not repeating the same mistakes.
2006-08-18 03:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's selfless love, it will not harm life as it is. If it's selfish, it will ruin both your life and the one you are in love with in the long run.
2006-08-18 03:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lynyrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heataches can teach us that we are human. If we learn where we were both right and wrong, if we learn that life is not perfect, that everything is not automatically supposed to be the way our minds dream up, we can mature and be happy.
2006-08-18 03:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you let it...otherwise, it's truly a blessing. What you get out of love will depend on what you are willing to put into it.
2006-08-18 03:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love absolultey ruins/interfears with your life. and when its good,
its great, and shen it's bad, its horrible. sorry to hear about your
situation, but take it one day at a time, you'll look back one day and say "what was i thinking?"
2006-08-18 03:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it can ruin ur whole life but it can ruin a part of life. it sucks
2006-08-18 03:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sexy D♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love won't ruin our life, but loving the wrong person does..
2006-08-18 03:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋