Anyone else sick of fake believers calling others idiots, stupid, etc. for asking a question?

Question

This isn't me necessarily, but I've read quite a few questions by both sides of the equation. When an atheist asks a question, they get responses from believers calling them idiots, stupid, even with threats. When I read a question from believers about "Why atheists this and that" the majority are just true to the point answers without insults. Now why is this that believers are more intolerant of questions about themselves than atheists are about questions about themselves? Do atheists understand and practice the concept of "turn the other cheek" better than those that claim to try and live their life the way that Jesus did?

Answer 1

I hear ya! I am a Christian and it really saddens me to see people who call themselves Christians taking such a cruel approach and response. I have asked a few questions that have been taken as harsh, I mostly ignore the rudeness of comments by Atheists and those who do not believe in Jesus because I understand that they sometimes respond that way and take immediate offense because of those who call themselves Christians behaving badly. I wish that these self proclaimed believers could understand that when you don't answer a question with kindness and true information, how will they know, learn or trust. Anyone who reads my questions and takes them as being judgmental or harsh, I am sorry, not intended that way. Sometimes I truly want to know why they believe as they do, so that I know. I try to be careful with wording, but sometimes offense is taken. I hope that God will put the right words in my head to reach out.

Answer 2

There are insults flung from both sides. I guess it only seems more offensive from a Christian because we are held to a higher standard given that we profess a belief in a Holy God. (not to say that atheists do not have standards---I know they do, that is not my point) I think it is quite horrible for Christians to respond to anyone with insults. However, as you said some are fake believers. Some may not believe in Christ. Some may just be immature. It would be nice if all could answer or ask questions without insults. However, this is a public forum...yet private....no one really knows anyone. So, some vent. Some perhaps have wanted to call a nonChristian a jerk for a long time but never would face to face. This too shows immaturity and a lack of understanding. I don't think asking if atheists understand "turning the other cheek" better is fair. Sure some do. Some do not. Ya know if you get a terrible waitness one night at your favorite restuarant...do you assume all the waitresses that work there have bad attitudes?

You are correct that Christians need to let people see the Christ in Christian. They also need to study more so they are not offended by questions that challenge their beliefs. Questions that challenge your belief are not inherently insulting. Oh, and my broad general statements are not for all Christians---only some. I have seen many responses that were just beautiful by Christians even in the face of an insult. Any yes, I have see the opposite.

Answer 3

Actually, I notice that the "offense" comes from truly abrasive questions by both sides meant to stir up trouble and "get a kneejerk reaction." The Scripture says, "WOE unto those who doth gender (cause) strife." "Intolerant Christians" is an oxymoron for how can someone call themselves Christian when they don't practice patience, charity, tolerance and etc.? I don't think either side practices the concept of "turn the other cheek" any better than the other because of one side or the other reacting in an intolerant, abrasive manner at a given time.

Answer 4

I don't know where you have been reading, but on here - the Christians are the ones being bashed. Daily - Hourly there are questions posted about how stupid the Christians are and does it require low IQ's to be a Christian -etc. Also, some of the questions asked are just insulting - Rude and they make me ill - Like one now - I won't even repeat but it is on the board about when Jesus Comes - I won't finish it. Now go back and re-think your question. I always see questions and comments from non-believers that are horrible to us Christians - way more than I see the other.
Nice try though. I think we are just tired of the bashing - if you can't be serious and understanding of our belief and religion, then please don't get upset when we throw insults back at you.

Answer 5

The unattractive picture people have of Christianity is not a result of following Scripture. It is the very thing Jesus warned us about and condemned.

Many Christians have a wrong idea of holiness. Usually it consists of a list of negative commandments. Almost always. these commandments are not found in Scripture but are rooted in someone's idea of what a Christian should be. Unfortunately, many people consider themselves righteous because of the things they do not do.

There is also the matter of hypocrisy. Examples can be found of people who profess to be believers in Christ yet their conduct is hypocritical. Jesus had very strong words for those who claimed to know Him but practiced hypocrisy:


But woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you shut up the kingdom of heaven against others; for you neither go in yourselves, nor do you allow those who are entering to go in (Matthew 23:13).

All Christians denominations have their traditions. Some traditions have been elevated to the place where they are equal with Scripture. This is unfortunate because people cannot separate the human-made things from the commands of God. During the time of Jesus, the distinction between God's commandments and human-made traditions had become blurred. Jesus denounced the unbiblical traditions of His day:


Why do you also transgress the commandment of God because of your tradition? (Matthew 15:3).

Answer 6

I think its hard for most believers to understand how unbelievers dont believe...lol that almost sounded like giberish. But on a seriouse note I am very religiouse and I find it terribly hard to turn the other cheek. I find it hard not to defend my beliefs. My mother in law is terrible at downing people for there wrong doings there is a word for it hypocrit, Most people see the wrong in others before they see it in themselves. Its a pet peve I have but I am sure I do it to, wish I didnt though...lol.

Answer 7

Because they are twisters of Christianity. What would Jesus do...call them "*******" or tell them "hey, this is what I know to be true and if you want to know more, come see me down where the fishermen hang".

And saying: "the Atheist do it" really aint gonna fly at the pearly gates. You are suppose to be Strong Soldiers of Christ, not babies who use others bad actions as an excuse

Answer 8

We get mad about the concept that person holds to. not the person himself. Lets say you have a son and he steals. You discipline him so that he leaves that habit and not because he is a stealer. Moreover the word of GOD calls him a fool. Here fool means [a person who lacks understanding].

Psalms 14:1
The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.

Dont be kind to ungodly concepts, but be kind to the people who are ungodly. God always loves people because HE is their maker.

God Bless.
Edwin

Answer 9

If such cases are truly happening, then it should be noted that they are not following the way of Christ. However, I have not seen such innocence on the part of atheists. I have been called blind, stupid, closed-minded, and my faith has been falsely accused of all kinds of wrong doing.

So tell me, why pretend atheists are innocent? If there is no accountability, then why come to their defense? Against whose principals are you defending them? Who is it that has the position to judge them?

And to whom shall your accusation against the "fake believers" be addressed? Shall it be believers or atheists to judge them?

Or someone higher?

Answer 10

Yahoo forums is quite tiresome. No way to knock out duplicate threads from repeating a hundred times a day.