Would ignoring her birthday get her attention & interes in me more or would it have a negative effect ?
2006-08-18 02:58:42 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it won't make her interested, trust me. If you want her interest back, I'd suggest sending - not giving in person - something small, like one rose, with a card saying ' thinking of you always' or something. If you really want to get her back, her for her to want you back, include a romantic photo of the two of you, and write 'we had good times' or 'thanks for the good times' or something that will et her thinking of the two of you. I would suggest not buying her something huge because it will look desperate and crawling.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-18 03:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jigga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you know women enough to know that you would get the negative if you don't at least give a card and a small gift. Are you trying to reconcile? If so ignoring anything at this point would not be a good idea. Maybe that was a part of why she is your ex.
2006-08-18 03:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck when you were married you probably ignored it so why stop now? If you have children with her, make sure the children have a nice present to give her. Otherwise forget it. Just read your bio...nick the children idea, since you don't have any. Jezzz you are into yourself. I think I understand you a little better. Stop playing head games with your ex wife and get on with your life and leave hers alone.
2006-08-18 03:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend entirely on what kind of relationship you have. Why do you want to get her attention? Are you interested in getting back together? If so, don't ignore her birthday!
2006-08-18 03:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you want out of this. If she is your ex then she should be out of your life and no...do not buy her a gift.
If you want her back in your life...do not play games...call her and wish her happy birthday. Invite her out for a birthday drink and if she accepts make it one drink only because you have plans later that can't be canceled. Make sure you do have plans. It doesn't matter if the "plans" involve your friends, your family or, even better, a date. What matters is that you have real plans and you won't break them for her.
2006-08-18 03:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it depends. If you and your ex are on good terms and the birthday gester is out of kindness and does not have an ulterior motive, then go for it. However, if you are trying to win her back by noting her birthday-I think that is pretty lame. When its over, its over.
2006-08-18 03:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by ycatstouch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she nice to you? If so, then send her at least a card to show her you are thinking about her. If she responds then take her out or something. You don't want to look pathetic. If she broke things off and is ignoring you then I wouldn't send her anything!
2006-08-18 03:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Femme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married for a long time, it would be nice. But if she was hurt when you broke up, it may open up the wounds again. That would not be a good birthday dift.
2006-08-18 03:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by lynddd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your wife personally but it would be a nice gesture if you greet her. She might think you are still interested though. If your not, then just tell her that you just wish her the best and hope she finds someone she deserves:)
2006-08-18 03:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your X wife. Ignore the birthdays, and holidays. She's no longer married to you, so let it go. ~
2006-08-18 03:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋