WTF!!!!!!!!!! We have been together for 6 years now............what in the heck does that mean?????????? Anyone?????????
2006-08-18 02:44:50 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After 6 years he is telling you that? I would break up and find someone else. Good luck.
2006-08-18 02:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real way to discover what he means is to discuss it with him. If he refuses to explain, you can tell him that, in that case, you are forced to make your own guess about his meaning.
If I were guessing, there are a number or things this could mean.
~ It could be an indication of some insecurity in him, and he means that you love him but aren't deeply *in* love with him.
~ It could be that he means he wants you show your affections in a different way that you currently do.
~ It might be that he is hinting at wanted to explore something new sexually.
~It could possibly be that he isn't satisfied with the current relationship in some way and is looking to place the responsibility for that dissatisfaction upon your shoulders.
I'm sure there are many other possible meanings. Whatever his intent, it is up to you to decide whether or not you can accept what it means for your relationship.
I wish you the best of luck in working through this!
2006-08-18 02:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by shawnabobonna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question and answer your looking for maybe this: "how do you want me to love you, other than the way im loving you", I know its easier said than done but you might have to resort to: "If I dont love you the way you want me too, then find someone who will". You can only love a person the way you know how, and noone has the right to change the way you love.
2006-08-18 02:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably sat through an entire episode of Oprah and now has a new definition of what love is. Slap him upside the head, give him a beer and sit him on the couch in front of ESPN for an evening and he'll be back to normal in no time.
2006-08-18 02:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that there is no right or wrong way to love someone. You just love them the best you can. Try asking him what does he mean exactly. Have him explain himself more clearly. Good luck.
2006-08-18 02:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to know more about both of you to answer.
But in most cases, guys want only two things (apart from sex). Those are affection and trust. Do you get jealous of him often? Do you not hold him in your arms when you could?
That's usually all you need to do. Let him be when he's not with you and don't bother him. When he's with you, make him wish he never has to leave by showing him how much you appreciate him for just being there.
2006-08-18 02:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would ask him what is the right way. If I did not like the answer or the answer is total screwy I would move on. 6 years would in my opinion a lot of wasted time.
2006-08-18 02:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could mean many things.....He's not satisfied with the sex....some things you may not do. He may just be to cowardly to tell you he wants out of the relationship. Also, the relationship may just be stagnate, in a rut. Good luck with this. If I were in your shoes I would confront hin directly and stay on him until he comes clean about what he really means.
2006-08-18 02:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by ironn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your boyfriend is trying to find an excuse to leave. Have you asked him to clarify what he means by "the right way"? Does he mean physically or emotionally? This is really a Gray area.
2006-08-18 02:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by vieveia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not at all clear what that means. I'd suggest you ask him to explain it, and if he can't, cut your losses and move on. He obviously wants something that he thinks you're not giving him. Maybe you can give it, maybe not. Either way he should be able to tell you what that is.
If I were the betting type, I'd bet he found someone else.
2006-08-18 02:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by Joe B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋