We were friends, but we have become really good friends the last few months. She shares secrets with me that she has told noone. She tells me what she dreams for her husband to look like, but she tells my sister to tell me that she does not like me if I ever asked my sister. My sister is her friend. She always has conversations alone with me, but she does not like me? We always seem to talk about romantic subjects, but she does not like me? She even told her brother to "go away" so that we could "talk in private" last time I saw her. Anytime we talk, the only reason the conversation ends is because someone cuts in or it has to end. I do not understand the seemingly mixed signals. What is she thinking?
2006-08-18 02:44:26 · 7 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is not sure if she wants to start a relationship with a friend because if you breakup it could ruin the friendship.Next time your alone do something like wrap your arm around her (only igf you normally woulddn't do this or hold her hand.Don't force her to do anything but say someting wouldn't it be fun if we dated.If she laughs and says no say I'm serious,then see her reaction.
2006-08-18 02:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a relationship with a girl that's like that. I don't have a sister she could tell she doesn't want me, but she has told me indirectly on many occasions that she isn't interested in dating me if I ever get the idea into my head. Otherwise, we spend lots of time alone together, watching movies, talking, walking in the cool night air. We talk about relationships and the way boys and girls behave and that sort of thing.
My guess is that the girl really does see you as a friend, a very close friend. But I would be careful if I were you about how I'd introduce any of my girlfriends to her. She may get very jealous and it may hurt her. Even if she may say things to you like "why aren't you dating anyone?" or she may even try to set you up with one of her friends, she may expect you to stay single indefinitely. But that's just because she's wacky, not because she actually wants you.
2006-08-18 02:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she thinks of you as a very close friend, maybe even more than she wants to admit right now even to herself.
As for your sister, well that stands to reason, your sister has already stated her opinion of you (though she probably loves you without question) to her friend and this girl is still young enough to think/feel differently about you privately but outwardly to your sister her friend she will deny those feelings/thoughts. Keep listening to her and talking with her, she will grow up one day and show the world her true feelings toward you.
2006-08-18 02:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you may be stuck in the 'friends zone.' What you're going to have to do is make her notice that you are a man with options! In your next conversation, bring up a "BEAUTIFUL" woman you are seeing. Wear nice cologne, please not anything cheap or tacky smelling. Make your voice as deep and sexy as possible. Keep your rambling to a minimum, be mysterious. These are the keys to removing yourself from the friends zone.
2006-08-18 02:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Solvinia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is even to complicated for me and I am a mature woman!!
Good Luck
2006-08-18 02:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Corie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question is too long thanx 4 the points though!
2006-08-18 02:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is that what they are calling it nowadays? "talking?"
2006-08-18 02:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋