Do you guys like it when girls take control and boss you around most of the time??
Cause my boyfriend said i need to take charge and tell him what to do..
and Do you like it when girls tease you? and play hard to get? I mean like, when we draw lines at it not where you become unintrested.. but. where your waiting for more.
2006-08-18 02:27:31 · 17 answers · asked by ohhemmgeethatshawt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its preference, I personally like to take charge.
The thing is, some guys are reactive instead of pro-active, in other words they don't look at the future consequences of their current actions until those consequences take effect.
2006-08-18 02:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'm not going to say that there aren't guys out there that are into domination, but I am one of the majority that isn't so big on it. I think what he was trying to tell you was that he wants you to be more vocal about what you want. I'm a guy so I can say this- Guys do NOT get even the most obvious of hints. That's why when guys talk to each other, they are usually very blunt and open about whatever it is. He is likely just asking you to be more blunt and not be so afraid of what he might think.
I don't like when girls tease me or play hard to get. I've got plenty of things going on in my life, and with me, I'll take the first step (make the first move), but if a girl doesn't start walking, there's other fish in the sea. I'm not going to knock myself out over some girl that I don't even know that well. Hard to get is a more effective game for guys to use on women, because if a woman is used to getting a lot of attention, and they notice a guy not giving them attention, they are intrigued by it.
2006-08-18 09:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by Matt B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u giving him too much control in the relationship?
Men do like it when a woman speaks her mind, has a mind of her own, and takes up for her self, this is a turn on to them. Ur aggression is sexy, but only at the right time. Dont be a military sergeant and go for overkill, but be firm. And sometimes tell him and others how it is, and how its gonna be.
Is he into S&M?
Ur boyfriend is probably telling u this cause ur being too passive, and no one wants someone they can walk over.
2006-08-18 09:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No to all questions. I've left women over them trying to take control after getting comfortable in the relationship. I guess some men like to act like footstools to thier women, but I ain't one of them. Playing hard to get is annoying too. I just walk away if a girl decides she wants to play like she doesn't have the time to talk to me. And usually they come up later trying to strike up a conversation, but since they've already shown thier true colors, I pull the same thing on them. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, right???
2006-08-18 09:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl should always be hard to get. If he isn't trying his hardest to keep you every day, then he will get bored and you will too.
As for the taking charge part, I like a girl who knows what she wants and is willing to come out and say it. I don't necessarily let her boss me around, but I'm willing to spend a fair amount of time doing things she wants me to. I'd prefer she say them than me have to figure them out on my own.
2006-08-18 09:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and No, neither one, don't boss me, just ask if you want or need something...as for holding out, well he just may go someplace else to get it while hes waiting for you...so keep him happy, and satisified and he should do the same for you...we're all differant though, and he may want you to tell him what pleases you, I dont think he wants a boss, if so then hes a submissive, and then you get to be the dominate one...
2006-08-18 09:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys dont like it when girls boss then arond cuz they think their men and they should be in but most guys like it when gurls tease em and play hard to get.so if ur boyfriend wants you to boss him around go rite ahead and do it
2006-08-18 09:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role playing yes, for real hell no. Tease yes,hard to get a little, Just gimme some sugar!
2006-08-18 09:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like a women who can stand her on ground but they don't like it when a women try to run them men are tought to be the head of the house, at the same time they want their women to be strong as well. in this case you can only ride it so far to a pointe then no you can't cross that line.
2006-08-18 09:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nice when the woman telld you what she wants and how she wants it when your having sex, but as for bossing and teasing.
NO.......most men and boys dont like to be teased,
2006-08-18 09:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋