My BF of 7 years (who I live[d] with) hasn't spoken to me since Sunday afternoon. On Sunday he invited his sister (we don't like each other) to my parents' house for a BBQ, which ended in a blow-out when she was told by my brother to stop drinking (she's underage) after she had helped herself to alcohol. She and her BF left the BBQ pissed off - and that was the last time my BF spoke to me.
I had reminded my BF of the house rules (my parents were out of town, but the rules still apply) and left him responsible to inform for HIS sister who HE invited. He never told her the house rules and he wasn't the one who told her to stop drinking, my brother did.
How can he be THIS angry when I wasn't the one who DID anything? What does the silent treatment really mean? We've been together 7 years, how could this stupid incident have made him angry enough to stop talking to me? How do I get him to start talking to me again? Help!?!
2006-08-18
02:03:34
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Trishy
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I've been taking care of my parents dogs while they are away and had been going home every night - to silence. On Tuesday night I went home and told him that this was BS - if he was angry at me, then just yell at me and get it over with! He continued to ignore me - so I told him I'd be staying at my parents' house and he knew how to reach me...
I've given him permission to just yell at me... this silence thing is driving me crazy. I don't know what he is thinking and so long as he is silent, my life is in limbo (Unable to change the past and unsure of the future). I've left him alone for 3 days - but was thinking of going down there to try and get him to talk to me again tonight. Should I?
2006-08-18
02:23:07 ·
update #1