This girl says she likes me a little bit more than a friend but won't go out with me. She told me she needs time to get over her ex-boyfriend. She hasn't called me at all this week and yesterday when I called her brother told me she went to hang out with her ex. I am just really confused. Why won't this girl just give me a straight answer. Do you think she may be not wanting to hurt me? Cause it hurts alot more not knowing. It's like she went from talking to me everyday to completley avoiding me and we didn't have a fight or anything. I want to get over her but I like her so much is it possible her feelings could change and she will stop playing games with me?
2006-08-18 01:59:52 · 22 answers · asked by Floridaboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your on deck baby-soon as SHE is ready
2006-08-18 02:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that she is playing games with you, at least not intentionally. It sounds like she is going through a break-up and she can't decide if she wants to try to make things work with her ex. By her saying that she likes your more than a friend...means that she likes you. She is telling you that she is not ready for a boyfriend yet....which means that there is hope. She is saying that you are and could be boyfriend material. But, she just needs to get her ex out of her head and heart. You say she isn't being fair that she is leading you on...but think of it this way. It wouldn't be right for her to tell you that she likes you and you guys start dating, but she still has thoughts of her ex. That would be wrong. So she is looking out for the best for both of you. Be patient and be a friend. Cause you getting mad or hurt that she doesn't want to be with you right now is only going to push her away. Just be there for her!
2006-08-18 09:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by blueyegurl0283 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just needs to get over the feelings she has for her ex. I am sure as soon as she is over him she will be calling you. She knows you want to go out with her so give a little time and things will work out.
2006-08-18 09:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Renee25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel confuse as she might be confused too..Perhaps she really can't get over her ex-bf..Just leave her alone..No point that you like her so much, even you are together but her heart will definitely be with her ex-bf..
She don't meet you perhaps she don't want to lead you on...but believe me...if she had a tiff or a big argument with her ex-bf again..she will call you and perhaps ask you out as you are the next best person she can rely and look for..cos you shown her your love...I'm like that when i still like my ex-bf..You want to know whats the outcome to the guy who's going after me?
He never get me although i also tell him i feel for him abit, but now i understand it's not like, it's i feel comfortable with him, that's all...1 year after my ex-bf..i like another guy, but not him...till now i feel bad for him but i never regret...
2006-08-18 09:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she wants to hurt you. I think that she does like you a lot but she knows that she still has feelings for someone else. If she starts a new relationship without allowing herself to heal completely from her breakup she would only be using you for comfort. I thinks that what she is doing is clearing her mind from what happened, healing so she can have a healthy relationship with you.
2006-08-18 09:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by blackturmaline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she still in love with her ex-boyfriend but at the same time she would like to have some one to count on it. What you need to do is ignore her don't pay attention to her, so she will realize that she need to diced what she wants.
2006-08-18 09:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by scorpygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she got her bro to tell you she was with her ex, even though she was probably sitting on the couch eating party mix, so you'd stop calling and she wouldn't have to let you down haaaaaaaard. She likes party mix more then you.
2006-08-18 11:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by boop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to give her some time.She is not sure about getting intimate with you because she is just recovering from her previous relationship.Just dont let her go,stand by her always,be there for her as a friend.If she is your destiny she will come to you automatically.so i suggest you to just sit back and relax.
2006-08-18 09:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she's willingly playing games with you, or wants to hurt you. She wants to be sure of herself first before making any commitments she'd regret later. She probably wants to be sure it's 100% over with her ex-, before going to you, lest she break yours and her heart over a hasty decision.
2006-08-18 09:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by seraphim_pwns_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already told you the truth,she needed more time to decide and now she has,the ex not you,accept it and move on.Game over!
2006-08-18 09:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you as a best friend. She can trust you,but she's not in the mood for a relationship.
2006-08-18 09:05:02 · answer #11 · answered by youtubefreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋