what is the best way to deal with a break up and to get over it?

Answer 1

Well my girfriend broke up with me the other week and although i've found it hard the best way i've found to cope is to be around my friends. It helps take your mind off things. Just give it time, it'll be painful for a while but it'll pass, then you can go out and find someone even better. Just hang in there, you'll survive.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Go out and have fun with friends the longer you keep your self busy the easier it is to deal with..And remember that no-one is worth your tears... So dry your eyes and enjoy the rest of your life everyone has to deal with heart break at least once in there life...And you will be happy again try not to think about it being the end of your relationship but the chance for a new beginning. I hope you feel better soon...

Answer 4

Me and my ex boyfriend split up 4 weeks ago we were together for 2 1/2 years. The most painful thing is being alone and loosing the routine your body doesnt no how to react.

I would say try to become happy with yourself find who you are. Dont go out every night getting drunk and partying because it covers up how you are feeling and then a month later when you are partied out, it will hit you! Its happened to me!

Try and find a hobie, like the gym, or reading etc. Try looking for a new job ,make changes and then you wont be reminded of how your life was with your ex

The thing that hurts the most is loosing the comfort, so try and learn to be comfortable on your own. You already maybe but its hard to be alone when your used to having someone to ring etc

Dont contact your ex as this keeps you hanging on thinking what if?

Answer 5

A break up is like the end of one chapter be ready to begin a new one! Honey every time a relationship fails, it's fate's way of telling you there is someone out there who wants u more. "He just wasn't the one" Go out have fun and must important believe in ur self and the things u could acomplish before thinking what u did wrong! Give it time time is the best cure... I no it hurts but trust me it works!

Answer 6

know what went wrong, but don't over Anallise, unless you want to return to it. look at the pros and cons of your relationship and you may see that you are better off.
remember that millions have break ups ,and there are plenty more out there, when you are ready. all ways learn from past relationships.
get busy doing things which you may have given up for the relationship , such as having more time with friends or family, pursuing hobbies etc.

Answer 7

Well, i split with my ex 7 weeks ago and got over it in my own way but heres some suggestions.....

1. Dress to kill, make sure you go to a place he'll hang out and make sure you snog one of his mates in full view of him! Will give him something to think about.

2. Get a damn good book to loose yourself in. That way you cant 'accidently' bump in2 him!

3. Make sure you put your make-up on and dress nicely each day and dont mopse around the house.

4. Surround yourself with your closest friends so your never alone and weeping.

5. Plan nights out with them that u couldn't do when you were with him

I kept my friends close to me and made sure I didnt let my appearence slip. I hired comedy dvds and had comedy nights watching things like peter kay!

I made sure I got out and I went to see an Iron Maiden tribute, (he didnt like maiden). Ive planned days out for the future too.

I saw him a few weeks ago and he asked how i was. He seemed a bit shocked that I was so happy. He text me 2 days later! I replied in a friendly manner only!

It really worked for me, so much so, that I met a gorge guy 3 weeks ago who thinks Im amazing!

Never thought anyone could live upto my ex but hes 10 times better. In every way!

The world saw me smiling and were completey unaware of the sadness inside.

My friend told me to read 'the complete book of rules' by ellen fein.

Read it, you'll soon realise that hes the loser in all this!

Good luck and keep happy!

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Answer 8

I would like to know the answer to this myself as my wife has just announced that she wants to separate and I have to leave home and, most importantly, my two small children. All I can see in front of me is a sea of pain. Going out and enjoying yourself is a quick fix and reality will come flooding back in the following morning. Time is a great healer but there is no fast forward button. I wish you luck. E-mail me if you want us to cry on each other's shoulders - electronically speaking

Answer 9

Time, that's all it takes is time there will always be something to remind you of an ex a song, fav perfume/aftershave etc but just try to remember the good things that you both shared & reject all negative thoughts because all that will do is make you a little bitter & upset, but most important of all put yourself 1st & don't beat yourself up with such thoughts could i have done more? was it my fault ? should i have listened more ? falling in & out of love is all part of life's rich tapestry ! & at times it sucks but at times you are walking on clouds ! goodluck for the future.

Answer 10

thats a hard one to come to terms with all i can say is time heals all wounds try something new to take your mind off the breakup its not easy some people deal with it differently try talking to a friend it may help