what kind of a gu y would you like to date?
2006-08-18 01:14:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really do wish that people didn't use the word "love" so casually. There is a big difference between dating someone, having a crush, infatuation, lust..... love is something that develops much later and is a deeper and settled feeling, All those high's you look for? Infatuation. It eventually goes away. Tingling in your pants? That's lust. Hopefully that never goes away. Love is not dating. Love is not even sex.
2006-08-18 01:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Warm with a pulse.
I'm not trying to be funny here... but why do women even bother having these little boxes that they think they have to tick in order to find the right man...
They have such high expectations of the fantasies in their head, that no man can ever live up to them and then they come on here and bleat on about why their man left them, why he cheated on them, why can't I find a nice guy... moan moan moan.....
I have no preconceptions, I just know what I don't like and avoid them like the plague.
2006-08-18 08:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie29UK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to love and to date may be a bit different. as you may date someone who is decent enough, but not necessarily fall in love.
if i was single i would like a male to be sure of himself ,not to have obvious debilitating baggage, to treat people around him well with respect for them and himself, as it will reflect what type of personality he has. he should not feel the need to impress , must have a natural sense of humour, be active and have more to talk about -other then sports.
it shouldn't be said , but he should not be violent in any manner or possessive.
to fall in love , requires you to spend some good times together , where you are compatible. it would be a natural thing and is not possible to be enforced.
hope yo find your love.
2006-08-18 08:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by saywot? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I first look at how he is...he has to be nice and decent..not a pervert..doesn't try to rush me into anything...I like to decide on my own pace....After that I look to see if he's going to be committed in a serious relationship...he has to have a sense of humor and not be too serious all the time...he would need to gain my trust and not break it...he should be willing to do for me what im willing to do for him...and what i think is most important in love is respect..he has to be respectful to me because i would always be respectful to him...And most of all he has to love me for who i am and not what I look like....he has to love me from the heart...just like I would love him from the heart...And lastly he has to love me truly....that's all...lol..yea I'm very picky..but you have to be in somethings....if you know what you want you'll most likely get it...just like I got the guy that I want to date and keep being with. :)
2006-08-18 08:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order for me to become attracted to someone ,,he must have a sense of humour,,a winning smile and a compassionate heart
2006-08-18 09:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by too shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taller than 5.8, good looking, interesting and fairly intelligent.
2006-08-18 08:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Nix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who knows how to have a good time and can make me laugh. He has to be sexually attractive to me, treat me with respect, be faithful, and charming.
2006-08-18 08:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by lida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MUST be intelligent and funny. Everything else stems from those two things.
2006-08-18 08:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his got to be funny n his got 2 treat u nicely aswell
2006-08-18 08:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by mysteriousxxgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally someone who i dont know much about that intrigues me an make me laugh but it is all in that first kiss!
2006-08-18 09:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by BOB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋