i asked two girls to ask for my bf's # of 4 yrs to see what he would do.. he did give his # and didnt even say he had a gf.. does this mean he's unfaithful? should i take him back? i dont know what to do.. he's also been living with me for 2 yrs now.. should i tell him to leave? when i confronted him .. he denied it .. then admitted it but said he thought they were customers ( he was working ).. now he said he didnt know what to do b/c they put him on the spot and his intensions were not to hook up with them! this is the first time it has ever happened.. i dont know if i should forgive him or move on.. would you? i have done way worse bfore ( met another guy but we were broken up and got back with my ex but was still seeing two guys this was about a year ago ) but my boyfriend gave his # out when our relationship was just fine.
2006-08-18 00:54:30 · 11 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was also his first gf and first everything.. so he says
2006-08-18 01:02:36 · update #1
the girls were like " hey my friend thinks youre cute can we get your number" he walked to see her face and said " sure "
2006-08-18 01:07:36 · update #2
you put up a trap to see wether you can trust him or not, while things have happened in your past that you aren't so proud of. It seems that your relationship with him has passed through several ups and downs and wasn't always stable...
usually people who can't be trusted also can't trust other people - if you think that your bf would cheat on you if he gets the chance, that's not good enough to split up (if you really love him and he you) but if you actually find out that he is having an affair, then you would have to decide if you want to stay with him.
A nice stable relationship where two people can trust each other is the best that can ever happen to a person, maybe there is still someone out there waiting for you!
2006-08-18 01:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by julesloveslife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your question twice - once to get an overview of your so called 'problem' and a second time reading between the lines. I reckon he has an issue with your relationship - he probably has had enough of you questioning his every move and checking up on him. Blocking your number and changing your voice is a little over the top don't you think? You need to relax and give him more space. There's nothing wrong with a little huntin' and fishin' from time to time. Take a step back and allow him a little more free time - without the pressure of a sackful of questions. You said yourself that he works jolly hard - sounds to me he would just like to take a break and enjoy some quality time alone. I hope you can work things out - you seem to have a good setup with a Brady Bunch set of kids. And one of your own too. I'm holding fingers that you can resolve your anger and enjoy your life together in the future.
2016-03-27 07:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK based on your question, I'm going to assume that these girls didn't just walk up to your guy and say let me have your phone number. He either knew them cause you know them OR they flirted with him at his place of business and then asked. I don't know what type of work he does but if its sales then sure maybe he did think they were customers. IF he works on commision then sure he would want them to call him and not the 'store' cause he would want the sale. There is also the potential of hurting some chicks feelings and losing a potential sale if he doesn't give out the phone number.
The most important thing you don't say is did he GET their numbers from them? Just cause someone calls you doesn't mean you have to call them back or return their calls. If he has voice mail and they did call him he would quickly realize that they were't customers.
I think you set yourself up for a fall here with out thinking the whole thing through. WHAT you should have done was gotten the girls to get his number then call and ask him out to see if he would go or then tell them sorry i'm involved with someone and or, I thought you were a potential customer sorry for the misunderstanding. IF you love someone you really shouldn't play head games with them.
2006-08-18 01:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by kevinswheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was that? What you wanted to prove? He's just a man. He shouldn't speak with other girls because he is-was with you?! He didn't do nothing wrong. He "lied to you because he was afraid you!!!! You didn't prove ANYTHING! Maybe you have just lost a perfect guy because you did a BIG MISTAKE!!! What whould you do in a same situation? You think that you have said no if someone asked you for your phone?!?!? Come on!!!
Go and BEG him for forgiveness if his normal he'll get mad with you by now but he will forgive you!
Good luck with that!
2006-08-18 01:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting girls to go and ask him for his number is a b*tch move. If you're doing stuff like that you shouldn't be with him anyway. You obviously didn't trust him even before he gave those girls his number, or you wouldn't have had them do it. I think you should tell him that you set him up, and he should leave you.
2006-08-18 01:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Gray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your a little crazy. There's nothing wrong with giving a number, it's only a number. And I think the reason he denied it at first is that he's afraid of you thinking ilke this...
2006-08-18 01:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is interested in creating an opportunity for something more with those two other girls. It does not mean he loves you any less.
2006-08-18 00:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two had better have a heart to heart talk.
2006-08-18 00:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by michinoku2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your life with someone you can't trust.
2006-08-18 00:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a liar. Get rid of him.
2006-08-18 00:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋