What would you do!?

Question

I have an ex girl friend who every time i go out she ends up there and me being a man take advantage, She say she is ok with the fun thing but i never meet any one else. There is no getting away from her with dramas!(You know kiss and tell all your friend stories). Bitching up to every girl in town, i ahve to keep her sweet i don't want to have problems!

I don't tell her were i am going and she is a sh!t strirer!

Answer 1

Do you want to be with her? Maybe you should try going somewhere you know she will not be. If you do want to be with her then talk to her. Communication is the one of the biggest keys to a relationship. Problems come with everything, it is how you deal with them.

Answer 2

First if you were a man you would not take advantage. Its clear you know where she hangs out so avoid the places for a while. You don't have to keep her sweet actually you don't have to do anything but you choose to do what you do. If you are serious about meeting someone else then you would not make "DRAMA" for yourself. You will have problems with her being sweet if you continue to mess with her because then that will be used against you she will see it as "Using her" when you do find someone new. Remember these are your choices.

Answer 3

Mate, if it's becoming that much of a problem then stop going out to the same places she goes. Go to a different town or club or wherever, just distance youself from her. If you keep sleeping with her then she's gonna think that it's ok to stalk you. Don't be rude to her though or she will b*tch to every girl in town, your gonna have to be a man and put your foot down and say enough is enough.

Answer 4

Well sounds like your guy's relationship was a bit immature still. You two seem like you were having sex without being in love. Which sucks for you because now she is attached and stalking you. It seems like you don't actually love her but you're just doing what she wants so she doesn't cause drama. What i would do is just ignore her and move on. Be careful who you have relationships with next time.

Answer 5

Just had a look at your 360 i live in bournemouth i know what its like!! Ummm to be honest dont sleep with her the slightest bit of interest you show her she will think there is more to it when its just sex. Dont worry about what she says to other people if they have any sence wont listen and can find out what your like for themselves. I know this is harsh but if you want nothing to do with her ignore her totally no sex dont take her calls. Can mail me if you like good luck

Answer 6

i had an ex stalk me for a while. you gotta stop taking advantage, grow some balls and realise that there's no easy way to get out of this. it'll probably all blow over inside a month or two anyway if you can do it. don't go trying to keep her sweet. SHE'S YOUR EX!! you owe her nothing.

Answer 7

Why don't you just leave the past behind and start going to some different places and meeting some different people? Sounds like you're stuck in an old routine to me.

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Answer 8

It seems like you still like her in some way (other than physically). It sounds like you like the drama, it may keep life interesting. The ball's in your court on this one, you know that you need to stop being at the same place as her . . .

Answer 9

Stop telling others where you're going cuz if you're not telling her where you're gonna be someone is. Try keeping it a secret just once and see if you get some peace. Good Luck!!

Answer 10

is she your mrs? tell her strait up to f**k off! have nothing to do with her, and while your at it maybe tell her a few home truths.and dont be worried about what she might do, what can immature little girl do? you will find someone else, just have fun and the right WOMAN will show up!