see cori(the goth cuz) and i dont get along cuz see hates everything and i love everything she isnt christain and i am she makes the littliest thang so big help ... i wont to know how to get along more with her...? thx
2006-08-18 00:33:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Find something you two have in common, and focus on that.
2006-08-18 00:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to change her. Being a Goth isn't about hating the world. Being a Goth is about thinking and forming one's own opinions about things. Unfortunately, part of that process involves rejecting the opinions we've been given.
Just because she's different, maybe very different from you, please don't look down on her, or think badly of her, or try to change her. A lot of devout Christians I've known look at non-Christians and believe that they're wrong, simply wrong! This gives the non-Christians the idea that they're being judged and looked down on. Let her make her own opinions about what's good and what's not, and just be yourself. Understand that part of her rejection is a desire to see things for herself and not merely to take what she's given. A lot of Goths are a kind of emodiment of the 'Prodigal' Child, who leaves to find their own answers. Some come back, some don't. Accept her and love her for who she is, unconditionally, and without judgement. She'll respond to that.
2006-08-18 07:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by crispy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for God to help you show Jesus to her and try to focus on the things you have in common with her.Like maybe invite her to go windowshop bookstores or something you both agree on.
2006-08-18 08:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Toooo Sexy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both hate fanatics, then it is a good start.
2006-08-18 07:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
put religion and beliefs behind..... enjoy the rest of each other... cheers!
2006-08-18 07:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to??? you are too different... forget it...
2006-08-18 07:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋