if your boyfriend was out of town and you went out with the girls for a drink do you expect him to flip when he finds out ? cause you are usually at home so this is a big surprise for him. and i have not seen the girlz for a while anyway?tell me man or the girlz
2006-08-18 00:14:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not insane.
If you feel bad for going out, call him and tell him you went out before someone else does.
Tell him the truth: you're alone and haven't seen the girls for a while.
2006-08-18 00:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Andi Rolf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not insane. That answers your question. Examine the relationship you have with your guy. If he's upset about what you've done, it is quite likely he'll be very controlling and upset if you don't do what he "expects" you to do. And his expectations may be very different from what you expect. Look very hard at this because it may well be a deal-breaker. (And, don't tell yourself you "love him to death" or some such, because as sure as God made little green apples, controlling behavior will kill anything you feel for him at some point or other.)
2006-08-18 07:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
non !!! just tell him that you went there ... Explain that you just wanted to see them ... There's nothing to hide!
And what this ??
tell me man or the girlz
why man or the girlz ?!
Both ! It's not boyfriend or friends!
2006-08-18 07:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a problem... his problem is that he is selfish. he cant stand u being with ur galfriends... thats a dangerous sign. deal with it now, tell him yes u luv him n he is important to u but u also need ur friends...where will u run to if u neglect them now n in the long run things dont go well? friends are important, men can be tammed... dont live under lock n key, or a 24 hour surveylance camera.... good luck.
2006-08-18 07:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all women need a night out every now and again so he shouldn't flip out, but then again it depends on what he is doing out of town. Like is he working, family emergency, yadda yadda.
2006-08-18 07:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by blueyedattitiude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is out of town, then why shouldn't you have some time with the girls to catch up, have fun and go crazy...
He should understand that need and not be such a jerk... :D
2006-08-18 07:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pretty insecure guy that's what I think (I'm a guy). Either that or he's pretty controlling and needs to make sure he knows where you're at ALL the time.
You need to tell him that you need some time w/your friends every once in a while.
2006-08-18 07:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man is a control freak and dissin' ya girls is not cool cause when that jack off decides to leave it'll be ya homies that have your back. So I say party on girlfriend!!!!!!
2006-08-18 07:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_n_chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to go out with the girls...
One person does not dictate the life of another.
You have to Know yourself, be confident, and asure the guy
he is the one.... if he can't handle it, you are in for a miserable life together...both of you...
i have a story for you of a couple and how they worked it out, if you care for more. just email or message me
2006-08-18 07:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are only insane is you believe that your b/f is right...lol...cuz hes not.....he shouldnt get all booty hurt and mad cuz you went out and had some fun.....you need your alone fun time....and he was out of town having fun..why cant you..and if your in a relationship when he thinks you shouldnt have fun...(which it souldnt like you are) get out of it now.....cuz if you stay...you will only get hurt.....he should be happy that you went out and had fun instead of at home....you can have fun..as long as you dont get involved with another guy......good luck......
2006-08-18 07:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by byrdie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋