but now a days he is not talking to me so often and distance came between. fighting and arguing so often.wat can i do. thi happened after my sisters intro which i gave to him. he want to talk to me when ever he feel boredom. he never call from his mobile but when he spoke to my sis he spoke for 15 mins.
2006-08-17 23:55:14 · 6 answers · asked by shwetha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What the heck is your sister's deal?! Ask her what's up with her talking to your man so much. I smell trouble.
2006-08-17 23:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a crush on your sister. The thing is, when guys decide to break up or something like that they do it in their own heads first. They think about it for a month or so without saying anyithing to thier partners. While they are thinking about it they start to put distance between themselves and you so making it easier when the time comes to actually break up. then, when that time is at hand, because they have been thinking about it for a while they have it sorted in their head and are already over it but the girl, she is taken by suprise and feels more hurt.
You need to pre-empt him by confronting him now! Ask him why he seems so keen on your sister and less so on you and that you feel hurt by this. Then tell him that YOU will end the relationship if he does not turn things around. This will disempower him and put you in controle, then you can feel better about the situation and be in charge of your own destiny
2006-08-18 07:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by litulbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone is only as good as they are to you. If he is not treating you right then you need to move on. Maybe when youre gone he can remember how great you were. You need to tell him how you feel and what you plan to do about it. Calling him and just saying why dont you call is not good for either one of you. Have a plan. Im not calling you anymore and im looking for someone else because you dont call. Or im upset because you talk to my sister more than you talk to me, Im getting frustrated and jealous, Im not thinking about you as much because i think you have a crush on my sis. Be upfront and straightforward and the truth shall reveal itself. Cheers
2006-08-18 07:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by ipoddironeus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,, He might have Lost Intrest in you,, thats true,, and he Might have not really Loved you but He Might be expecting some thing from your sister,, pls observe him still closely ,, when he is not showing proper signs,, why u should give much importance,,
Good luck,,
2006-08-18 07:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by joy_joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are sisters you interfere where they don't belong. I would not tolerate my boyfriend getting pally with my sister especially if my sister had form with this kind of behaviour.
Kick him to the curb.
2006-08-18 07:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by calamity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Dont worry. This happens.... Think that he loves ur sister more than you. Better dont disturb him.
Learn from people. You kool. Dont worry.
2006-08-18 07:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by ausrg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋