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i am a thousand miles away from her, i have come here for some work purpose. how should i react when i will see her after such a long time?

2006-08-17 23:54:30 · 9 answers · asked by Ayaz Ali 4 in Family & Relationships Family

9 answers

Maybe its weird for most people in here to even hear of such a thing since most people answering are Americans but its true that many many asians travel to other countries for work, leaving their wives and children behind, while they toil and save money so the family back home can have a better life.

I know some Pakistanis and Nepalis here in Malaysia who've been away from their families for 5-7 years and all they can do is talk to their wives over the phone once a month (when they get their pay). They go back after their contracts expire because it is the company's liability to pay for the flight home, which could be worth a few months pay for them.

Extra-marital affairs and boyfreinds do not exist since the wife stays with the in-laws and generally surrounded by family all the time.

You're asking us how you should react? How long were you married before you moved off?

2006-08-18 00:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

We can't tell you how too react.
Expect her to have changed, noone stays the same after 3yrs.Be open minded, both of you have changed and it might be a little hard to relate to each other at first.
Be prepared to woo her all over again. Your relationship will be lots different, start with the things that initially attracted you to her and work from there.
Show up with a gift!!!

Good luck

2006-08-18 07:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by S_star 1 · 0 0

With your hat in your hands and a shy smile on your face. don't just barge in maybe meet her or have her meet you in a restaurant or at a relatives house. Why? because 3 years is a long time apart and she deserves it.

2006-08-18 07:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0 0

well, first, u have to hope that she still loves u and has no lover ;)
After that, u take her in ur arms and kiss her very strong ;) com on man, what's wrong with u...what does ur heart say?

2006-08-18 07:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i cannot beleive that u are actually asking that question. are u mad did you not miss her? you must have she your wife for pits sake try holder close and making mad passionate love to her. gosh !!! its been ages dont you think she adlees deservesv that much

2006-08-18 07:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

smile on your face

Red roses in your hand

Perfume in your hand bag

and big drive in your libido

That will do the trick

2006-08-18 07:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by shady_man 2 · 4 0

flowers ,chocolate,teddybear....and all your love....we cant tell you how to react....its your own body..you cant make it do something you dont wanna do...but a few tears wouldnt hurt...its soo sexy when a guy cries.....lol...good luck.

2006-08-18 07:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by byrdie 2 · 0 0

You will know that when you see her. Not a moment before.

2006-08-18 07:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by no one 6 · 0 0

Don't forget to say hello to her new husband

2006-08-18 07:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by virgilio costa 3 · 0 1

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