I'm 15.My father died 7 years ago.Then my mother married a man called Jim(he is my step-father).Two years ago my mom died in a car accident.Since then my sisters(Regina,age 11 and Adeline,age 8) and I live with Jim.He is definitely NOT a good father.He leaves us alone at home every day(when going to work).But I take the care of Regina and Adeline,that's not a problem.Anyway the real problem - A few weeks ago Regina told me(she looked scared) that Jim has come in her room at night and woken her up.Then he took out his dick and made her suck it.Unfortunately we don't have any other relatives we could go to live with or even tell about that.When I heard that I took Regina and Adeline in my room and since then we sleep in one room.Yesterday I was at a party in my friend's house and came back late.They all were quiet.Today Regina and Adeline told me that Jim has raped Adeline.I don't know who can help us but we have to go somewhere AWAY from Jim!
2006-08-17 22:36:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
But if we go to the police or call 911,we'll probably go to social services and since there's noone who can take the care of us,we will be separated!I don't want this.
2006-08-17 23:51:38 · update #1
Take ur sisters and go straigh tot the police office. And I mean NOW. All the best to the 3 of you.
2006-08-17 22:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why did you go to the party and left your sisters alone at home during the night? You should not do that if you already knew what happened with Regina. Please, address to the social worker and call the police. You need an institutional help since you have no relatives to protect you. Take your sisters and go to the police NOW. DO NOT WAIT A SECOND MORE. They will now what to do.
2006-08-17 22:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by Aurora 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, call the police immediately. Jim belongs in jail. If you like, here is a number that you can call also: 1-800-4-ACHILD They will advise you also. I cannot stress strongly enough how serious this is for all three of you. Adeline especially will need trained counselors to help her.
Message me if you need other resources or any help. We have adult nieces who were molested when they were children and we volunteer at places that care for abused children.
2006-08-17 22:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing, go to the authorities NOW, although it wont be great and you poor little sister will probably need to be physically examined. It has to STOP NOW, otherwise it will only get worse, do you really have no relatives at all to turn too? maybe rellies you dont know about? the authorities need to be told so they can help you, god bless, im praying for you and your sister.
When I say the authorities I mean the police but if walking into a cop shop is to weird for you talk to a school teacher first, they will know were best to go for help for you kids
2006-08-17 22:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Samantha. You're in a very serious situation and you should complain to the police department. If you're in the US, just dial 911 and tell them. You're all at risk and there are protective mechanisms in place for situations like yours. If those mechanisms fail to answer, just yield for help, but the starting point is 911.
2006-08-17 22:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by virgilio costa 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
take to you friends mom tell her what is going on she can get you the help you need. you need to talk to and adult that can call child proactive services. school teacher, , some that well make the call or the next time your at you friends home call your self tell them what is going. sweetie you and your sister need to get out this it know way to live my friend was rape buy her step dad and she 24 now and steal has to see and doc for that she went though not only her her he rape his on 2 girls and his son to. child proactive service stepped in and the kids are try to get there life together he went to
jail for what he had done what made the kids so happy he could heart them anymore.
2006-08-17 22:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by mommy72403 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is true and not a made up question the place to go is the police. You will be put in foster care but it will be safer
2006-08-17 23:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry for you all, but think about this, would you rather the possibilty of being seperated or the abuse to contine with your sisters. Please go to the police, or is there any relative you can contact that can help you? Some foster families are not so bad you know. But please weigh up whats worse, seperation or the sexual abuse.
2006-08-18 00:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by springo88 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this go, act upon it as soon as you can. I would be glad to come over and kick his azz if you are close to northern Michigan.
2006-08-17 22:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by want2wild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If school is in session where you live, go to the school counselor. If it isn't in session just call the cops yourself.
2006-08-17 22:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jill W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋