2006-08-17 22:20:25 · 25 answers · asked by sally 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah play silly games with him then he'll do one for good
2006-08-17 22:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a point in the relationship that you get tired of doing the same things. Like if you guys just always hang out with friends, go to the mall,talk all night (when you already run out of good stories to tell),the same routine goes and indeed it is tiring. So, don't see it as your guy losing interest on you. You just have to spend time together for new things. Why not try to do some sports you both haven't played? Go out of town..somewhere refreshing.It will also help that you give each other free time..like if usually you talk every night..why not try like every other day? It will help..or if you guys go out every weekends,just give it like thrice a month...that is for the meantime.It will give both of you the chance of looking at yourself...and you will soon realize tha you missed each other. BUT open communication is still very important.Go to church together and pray. Before trying to do any of these, ask him first if he is okay with it..then if after a while (give it like a month) and he is still like that then i guess its time for him to pack up and go.Hope this helps because it worked for me. God bless!
2006-08-18 05:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good advice for you.
Stop calling, stop making contact at all!
Usually, he will contact you in 1 week - 3 weeks. If he doesn't, start looking for a new guy.
When he calls you, or text you, he will start off saying "how's things?" or things like that. Don't answer.
He will be questioning, and wondering, and try to get your attention from then. Just say that you're fine. Don't call him and be availiable or anything.
If he ask you out on a simple date, say that you have plans. When he starts to ask you out in a big date where you always wanted to go, than that's the time when you should say "I'd love to" and have a great time!
But even after that, don't call! Don't be availiable!
Just go back to the time when you two started your relationship.
2006-08-18 09:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is lossing interest and you play hard to get he will just not bother and you will see each other less and less and then it would be like your not going out and he (or you) will do the dirt and it will be all over.
You dont want to smother him with attention either cause he will feel sufficated!
give him a little room then bring him on a FUN, romantic day out. Just the two of you just how it used to be!! nad give a little treat at the end of the day!!(if you know what i mean!!!)
2006-08-18 06:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by peterpeterpeter1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not play hard to get. That is the worse thing you can do. It will only drive more distance towards you two. The best thing to do is to try new things. Be more open with each other. Spend more time together. All of these things are better than playing games.
2006-08-18 05:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Khali sucks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes play hard to get but don't go over the top.
Start seeing your friends more, don't ring him all the time, take longer to reply to his texts, if he is doing something you might disagree with bite your tongue and let him do it.
Its weird but this stuff does work! then he will think you loosing interest in him and give you more interest this always works! men like a challenge!
Don't go to far though!
Start a new Hobie he might decide to do it with you and this will get you both enjoying something together
2006-08-18 06:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by st4cie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spark his interest again honey! Use your womanly assets to lure him back, dress for him, get the stockings out again, the basque and the uplift bras, or suprise him, go out for dinner with no underwear on, and tell him halfway through...play footsie with him under the table, but not with his foot, go a little higher, you have to keep some effort in there to keep the fires buring in his loins
2006-08-18 07:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Storm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the same and he is losing interest then it may well be best to move on and find someone who is interested in you ..
These sort of things do happen naturally .. it takes a while to find 'the one' if you ever manage it at all ..
I am sure there are plenty of guys willing to take his place :)
2006-08-18 05:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be less avaiable, that will end it, here is what you should do, ask him if he wants a 3 some, say you want to give him something special, and then find another girl to bring into the bed...you both will enjoy it...and he will forever be thankful to you,. then maybe you could get another guy for you.....or you could try getting toys, or just expanding your sex life in other ways,,,but the other girl will work best..
2006-08-18 06:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be unavailable to him. Although, I would suggest spending more time doing the things you want to do and if he wants to go with you great - if he wants to break up ... there is nothing you can do to stop him. So just concentrate on you, do the things that make you happy and either he will want to stay with you or you will find someone who deserves you.
Good luck!
2006-08-18 05:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jellybones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more available and open. You are probably too closed for him. Have a great time with him and explore new ideas.
Don't go the other way, you will lose him.
2006-08-18 08:42:12 · answer #11 · answered by guitarman_hh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋