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Question

I touched my cousin one night she is 15 I am 16 we both talked and regret what we did but it wasn't like long touching or anything it was a short about 5 second touch until we both realized what we were doing I can't eat sleep or drink i'm worried and afraid advice please?!

Answer 1

If you don't want to talk to anyone about it then get a journal and write about how you feel. Sometimes it helps.

Answer 2

well since you mentioned it's just only accidentally touch her, then it's not really a big problem. sometimes friends also unintentionally touch each other. unless you meant you purposely touched her or subconsciously or had actually intended to put your hand on her.

okay first you must ask yourself whether you like her. if you do, go ahead and ask her if she feels the same way. i dont know about your tradition but for my country here, cousins can go with each other only if it's from the mother's side. father's side cannot unless it's your auntie's child. cos of the thing that a child inherits the father's blood and if it's your uncle's child then you and your cousin will have the same blood.

i can only say time heals all wounds..so you just have to wait.

Answer 3

You've both shown regret, and that means you know what you did was wrong. You were curious, and that's okay. It was consensual (meaning you both agreed to it). You should not feel afraid, or worried. It's over, it's done. Confide in your cousin how you feel if you need to talk. Don't listen to the people on here who criticise what you did. They're just being jerks, and not at all trying to understand the situation. If you need further help, email me. I'll help any way I can.

Answer 4

Wait, you touched? I'm assuming it was sexual since you wouldn't be freaking out about touching her shoulder... Well reality is that you guys are cousins and should not be doing that stuff within the family. I know you are 16 and 15 and are curious and feel sexually aroused, but you should stay away and find other people to try stuff out with. Why don't you try "touching" other girls? I know there's lots attractive girls at your high school... I know the advise is plain and simple but let me know if you need more in depth talk, feel free to contact me and seek more information.

Answer 5

It's really no big deal. Sex between first cousins is legal in nearly half of the US states and in most countries in Europe. If it's illegal where you live, you obviously need to be careful - but it's nothing to have a major guilt trip about.

Answer 6

I don't think a "5 second" touch caused any harm. If you guys are 3rd or 4th cousins,that's pretty far removed so don't worry about it.if you're like 1st or 2nd cousins it would probably be frowned on by your families!

Answer 7

Hi..You are a human. As you both weren't aware of the worng things it happend by mistake. You both talk to each other and convince and forgive your ownselves as to what happened. At your age its more of curiosity and as you become mature you will understand that it is more purer than mere touch.
You dont have to feel guilty just be normal and happy and move ahead..

Answer 8

well, if you are close to your mom and she is open. have a talk with her.
it is common for cousins to attract each other at your age esp if you are both close to each other. there are many cousins that get together.

also, U r in love.. :P

Answer 9

if you're truly sorry about what you did. forgive yourself and move one. not forgiving yourself will only increase your guilt. let go and believe that you were also forgiven.

get a grip of yourself and start anew.

Answer 10

talk to her some more...
if you guys are still attracted to one another then you could...but keep in mind that she is you mothers(fathers) nice... and the blood conectoin is really strong...