ok so i finally broke up with my boyfriend, i kinda feel like i did the right thing i never see him and i know sometimes he cant help it cos hes starting out his own business but its now starting that the nights we can meet he'd prefur to go out with the lads, he asks me to go but i wouldnt like to spend time with him and all his friends when the most we see eachother is 2 nights a week for a few hours, theres other small things to that are to long to go in to, i told him i wanted to break up which i feel in my heart is the right thing, but im finding it kinda hard today the more i think about it we never went a whole day with out contact i kinda feel like he wants it now, is it normal to feel this way, we were together a year and a half
2006-08-17 21:54:12 · 9 answers · asked by Pinkywinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you f'ed up.
2006-08-17 21:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by No way man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, anything you invest a lot of time into, will be hard to walk away from, this guy is/was only a boyfriend, you guys arent married, i mean.if you can immagine getting married to him, maybe you should wait out the starting of his bissiness, it would be your future security. as far as his friends, you have to keep in mind that even though your his girlfriend, they are his friends, and he seems to be trying to keep all his relationships without much time to do it. maybe compromise...hang out with him and his friends once a week, and at least once a week have a night for just you two.maybee see if thier is anything you can do to help him with his bissiness to give him a little more free time for you.
whatever you do, keep in mind that the key to a relationship(any kind) is compromise, and willingness to bend when things are tough.
good luck
2006-08-18 05:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. But DO NO call him or answer his calls for at least 60 days! Get a new pattern going for your day... like when he would have called go to the gym or do something else to replace it. You will find someone better for you! Don't settle just because you're a little lonely now.
2006-08-18 05:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u talk to him about the reasons u wanna break? i think u should and both of u should come to a conclusion or solution to solve the problem u are facing. tell him how u feel and if he really wants u, he'd try to do it for u.
2006-08-18 05:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by UltimateKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you 2 need to talk. Tell him how you feel
2006-08-18 05:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over him.
Just take it as a bad habit, you are trying to kick!
Hang in there!!
2006-08-18 05:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you he will come after you (in a good way) let life take its course.
2006-08-18 05:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal to feel like that, u'll get over it, all u need is time.
2006-08-18 05:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fed up with the relationship, break it up.
2006-08-18 05:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋